Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
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Fascination Factor: 3 Ways to Keep Him Fascinated with You
When do you feel most drawn towards your partner? This is one of Esther Perel’s favorite questions. She’s asked this question to audiences around the world,...
From Fizzling to Sizzling
Barbara needed my advice. She explained that she was dating a wonderful man. They were both in their sixties. They both had adult children and he ran his own...
The Last Thing You Want to Do In A Relationship Crisis
Sarah stared at her phone. Her hands shook as she read and re-read the text. He was really doing it. He was breaking up with her. Her hands flew as she typed...
Surprising Reason He Blows Hot & Cold
Raise of hands—how many of you have never experienced a man blowing hot and cold? Anyone? It’s a near-universal experience for women seeking a real...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There's a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don't get this for one simple reason.
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5 Ways to Talk About Commitment (Without Talking About Commitment)
When you meet a man you really like, you don’t feel like keeping your options open. You want to be with him and only him. So you give him the best gift of all: Your complete and whole-hearted commitment. You keep your weekends open for him. You take down your dating...
25 Love Questions to Ask Your Guy
From the moment you met him, you were waiting for this. For him to look you in the eyes and say, “I want you to know that... “I love you.” As you hold his gaze, fighting back tears, feeling your heart swell in your chest, you can hear all the things he’s not saying:...
It’s All My Fault, Isn’t It?
When things go wrong with a guy… How often do you think to yourself, “It’s all my fault”? You feel like you did something wrong. You must have accidentally pushed him away. Or maybe you didn’t do something that you were supposed to do. You didn’t say the right thing,...
5 Steps to Changing His Mind
Ever been in a situation where your guy just won’t budge? He’s convinced he’s got it all figured out. He won’t listen. It’s like hitting a brick wall. You turn to your friends for advice, and what do they say? “Reward him for doing it your way.” “Make him think it was...
Ask Him These 5 Revealing Questions
This could be the beginning of something wonderful. You really care about him. You want to be part of his life. But a few things he’s said bother you. He’s got some complicated issues in his life... And he doesn’t want you to become involved. You have a few...
When Sleeping Together Can Drive You Apart
Nearly two-thirds of couples spend most of the night apart. Does that horrify you? Or can you empathize completely? It’s long been believed that sleeping apart is a sign of trouble. But many couples credit a better night’s sleep to separate beds.[1] Is better sleep...
He Blocked Me – What Now?
Things weren’t going great to begin with. Maybe you said something he disagreed with. Maybe you had a fight. Maybe he hadn’t been in contact and you just wanted to hear from him. You went to message him… And discovered you couldn’t. He’d blocked you. What do you do...
He Won’t Put Effort In
For many young people, living in a dorm or a shared apartment is a rite of passage. You’re away from your parents for the first time, and it’s up to you to keep your living environment clean. Many of us also remember the frustration of having a roommate who didn’t do...
Should You Send That Text?
You’ve already sent him three texts. He hasn’t replied. You scroll back through your messages, wondering if you should send one more. Just something to jog his memory and remind him you’re still waiting for his reply—surely it couldn’t hurt? Love is full of moments...
The Relationship “Golden Rule” Is Different
Leia was upset. “He knows how much I care about him, James!” she told me. “Before he left, I told him he could take all the time in the world. I would be here for him. I loved him, and I wasn’t going anywhere.” “And how did he respond?” I asked. From her pained...
From Casual to Committed: The Boring Paradox
Why do most new relationships fail? Because they can’t make it through the Crunch. The Crunch is the transition from having fun together to making a life together. Everyone wants to have fun. Having fun is innately rewarding. But making a life together is only fun...
Dating Dilemma: Are Your Standards Too High?
Look around. Can you spot a single man you’d feel excited about dating? Even if you look on a dating app, it can be hard to muster much enthusiasm. Nearly 1 in 2 adults in the U.S. feel that dating has gotten harder in the last decade.[1] A whopping 3 in 4 singles say...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.