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The Most Important First Date Questions You’ll Ever Ask

The Most Important First Date Questions You’ll Ever Ask

When you go on a first date, so many questions run through your head. Will he like me? Will I like him? What if we have nothing to say to each other? What if I say the wrong thing? Those questions keep circling in your mind, making you feel sick with worry. How am I...

Is He Wasting Your Time?

Is He Wasting Your Time?

A relationship is a HUGE investment of time and energy. And you’re investing your heart. Why would you give your heart to someone who just wants to play around? Sometimes, it’s easy to tell who the timewasters are. They’re the guys who admit they’re not looking for...

Bored in Your Relationship? Try These 3 Tips

Bored in Your Relationship? Try These 3 Tips

True or false: Being bored in your relationship is a red flag. When asked this question, many people would instinctively say yes. Being bored feels like a bad sign. No one wants to go somewhere boring, or talk to someone boring, or do something boring. So why would we...

Feeling Lonely in Your Relationship?

Feeling Lonely in Your Relationship?

When Briella fell for Nick, she knew she’d never be alone again. This was her twin flame. This was her soulmate. It was so easy to be with Nick that she found herself turning down invitations to go out with friends, so she could stay home with him. He understood her...

The Sad Reason Men LOVE It When You Compliment Them

The Sad Reason Men LOVE It When You Compliment Them

If you were dating a guy, and he NEVER complimented you on how you looked… You’d think something was wrong! How hard is it to say, “You look nice”? A compliment lets you know he’s attracted to you. It shows he’s paying attention. When you turn on the radio and hear a...

Best New Relationship Questions to Ask a Guy

Best New Relationship Questions to Ask a Guy

Half the problem on a date is keeping the conversation flowing. Unfortunately, most of the time that’s up to you. How many times have you found yourself carrying the entire conversation while the guy you’re with sits across from you, sips his drink, and nods every so...

3 Habits of Highly Attractive Women

3 Habits of Highly Attractive Women

Everyone has a “type.” The men you find attractive aren’t necessarily the same ones your best friend finds attractive. But if you take a group of men, chances are, you and your friends would agree on which are the most attractive of the bunch. That attractiveness...

What Men REALLY Want When They Do Something Nice for You

What Men REALLY Want When They Do Something Nice for You

If another woman does something nice for you, how do you respond? You thank her, of course… And then you probably start thinking of a way to repay her kindness! When someone does something nice for you, you do something nice for them. But what happens when a man does...

3 Questions That Help You Know If He’s The One

3 Questions That Help You Know If He’s The One

It’s one of those questions I get asked all the time: “How do I know if he’s the one, James?” My clients want to know if this is as good as it gets. What if there’s someone out there who’s better? What if they’re wasting time with the wrong man when Mr. Right is still...

Why Men Hate Conflict (& What to Do about It)

Why Men Hate Conflict (& What to Do about It)

Keri never got angry. She saw herself as a calm person who got things done and didn’t get caught up in drama. But inside she was starting to snap. She loved her boyfriend Brad. She really did. She just wanted them to be happy. And they would be happy… If Brad would...

How to be a one-of-a-kind girlfriend

How to be a one-of-a-kind girlfriend

Every so often, a study comes out that makes me want to cheer. I can talk about the importance of being yourself as much as I like. But unless there’s research to back it, it’s just my opinion. And that opinion isn’t shared by old-school dating advice, which tells...

5 Body Language Signals You’re Probably Missing

5 Body Language Signals You’re Probably Missing

The benefits of being able to read body language are obvious: You know if he’s interested even if he’s not saying a word. You know if he’s NOT interested before wasting your time. And you probably already know these 5 basic signs to look for. Is his body facing...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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