Relationship Healing
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
It’s All My Fault, Isn’t It?
When things go wrong with a guy… How often do you think to yourself, “It’s all my fault”? You feel like you did something wrong. You must have accidentally...
Beyond “What’s Next”: Unlocking Joy in Your Current Relationship Stage”
You know what will make you happy. You’ll be happy when he finally commits. You’ll be happy when he gives up that habit that drives you crazy. You’ll be happy...
5 Reasons He Makes You Feel Like An Emotional Wreck
“I don’t get it, James,” Kate said. “I’m confident in every other area of my life. But when it comes to him, I’m a wreck.” She gave me a sad smile. Love makes...
This Tool Helps You Navigate The Pain of a Breakup
As you can imagine, I’ve seen a lot of tears in my office. Love is an emotional topic. Some of the hardest moments happen during breakups. My clients tell me...
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More Healing Articles
Signs You’re Emotionally Disconnected (And How to Feel Close Again)
When you are upset, what does your guy do? Does he listen to you… Emotionally validate you… And support you until you feel better? Or does he vanish on you? When you need him, he’s just not there. If he WAS there, he’d just tell you not to get so upset. He’d tell you...
Feeling Lonely in Your Relationship?
When Briella fell for Nick, she knew she’d never be alone again. This was her twin flame. This was her soulmate. It was so easy to be with Nick that she found herself turning down invitations to go out with friends, so she could stay home with him. He understood her...
The Sad Reason Men LOVE It When You Compliment Them
If you were dating a guy, and he NEVER complimented you on how you looked… You’d think something was wrong! How hard is it to say, “You look nice”? A compliment lets you know he’s attracted to you. It shows he’s paying attention. When you turn on the radio and hear a...
When Your Boyfriend Makes You Feel Bad, This Might Help
When you text your guy and you don’t get a reply right away, how do you feel? When you’re in the mood to cuddle and your guy isn’t, how do you feel? When you ask your guy what the plans are for the weekend and he tells you he’s going to spend time with the guys… How...
Why It’s Not Selfish to Say No to Your Guy
I’m going to ask you a really tough question. Here it is. Your guy has asked you to do something you REALLY don’t want to do. Do you: Say yes … but end up feeling resentful? Say no … but end up feeling guilty? It’s impossible, right? Either way, you end up feeling...
What a Cup of Coffee Can Tell You about Your Relationship Mistakes
Bernadette was frustrated. “I did everything right, James,” she said. “I made sure to soften my approach, I talked about my feelings, I avoided blaming him … but I still think I might have wrecked everything.” Bernadette had been wanting to talk to her boyfriend...
When Dating Feels Like Rejection After Rejection…
When Jayla walked into my office, she didn’t smile or shake my hand. She shuffled over to the chair, sat down hard, and stared at me. She told me flat-out that she didn’t think I was going to be able to help her. She thought this was going to be a complete waste of...
It’s All His Fault
When everything goes wrong in your life, you know who to blame. It’s him. ? If he had been more supportive when you came home and told him about the problem you were having at work, you wouldn’t have been so upset. You’d probably be having a nice evening right now....
How to Get Over the Shame of a Breakup
It’s tough when women come into my office suffering from a recently-ended relationship. They want to get over it, they want to move on and meet someone new, but the pain of loss keeps tripping them up. I admire these women greatly. They’ve gone through a terrible...
How to Soothe Rejection with Self-Compassion
If I could make a guess about you, I’d bet that you’re harder on yourself than anyone else. Am I right? You’re hard on yourself because being a good person matters to you. You want to be good at what you do. You want to be good to the people you love. You don’t want...
Bounce Back with Better Self-talk
Think of your last REALLY BAD dating experience. The guy who arrived at your dinner date … only to confess he’d already eaten. The guy who vanished into thin air while you were freshening up in the bathroom. The guy who failed to mention he was married. The guy who...
3 Strategies to Tame a Guy Who ALWAYS Has to Win
“He has to win at everything!” Damona was exasperated. “We can’t even go for a game of mini golf without his ‘gotta-win’ hat going on. It’s not even fun anymore. We go for a hike, he’s gotta pass everyone else on the trail. I keep telling him it’s not a race to the...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!