Relationship Healing
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
Why Do Guys Come On Strong Then Pull Away?
When Alyssa came into my office, she wasn’t the same woman I’d seen the week before. Her blond hair was limp and unwashed. She wasn’t wearing makeup. Her...
How to Heal a Broken Heart: 3 Tips
What’s the #1 reason people don’t get into relationships? You know this… It’s because they’re worried about getting hurt. And why are they worried? Because...
3 Steps to Broaching Difficult Conversations
“I don’t know what I did wrong, James!” she said. “I did everything I was supposed to. I planned out what I was going to say, I wasn’t critical, I asked for...
Do You Know How You Feel? Really?
Something he’s doing is bothering you. You feel uncomfortable about the situation, so you call your best friend to talk about it. You explain what happened,...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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More Healing Articles
He Doesn’t Make Me Feel Special
He takes you for granted. He didn’t used to. He used to text you all the time. He used to beg to see you. Now? He never has time. He’s always got other things going on. How can you make him go back to the way he was? Do you: Greet him at the door dressed in your...
I Can’t Stop Thinking about My Ex
“Oh, James. I really messed it up.” Olivia was sitting in my office with her head in her hands. When she and her boyfriend broke up last month, she thought she’d handled it well. She kept her feelings under control. They had a mature conversation and parted on...
10 Reasons Why Your Ex Keeps Texting You After The Breakup
Why is he doing this? He’s still calling and texting you, even though he’s the one who broke up with you. He said he didn’t want a relationship. So why is he acting as if you’re still in one? Could it be that he’s missing you? Does he regret breaking up with you? Does...
Why He Won’t Say “I’m Sorry”
“Ow! You stepped on my foot!” Caitlin pushed her boyfriend away. “Well, you shouldn’t have been standing behind me!” Drake turned to face Caitlin, who was hunched over clutching her foot. “I was standing there because I was trying to help you,” she said, exasperated....
Signs You’re Emotionally Disconnected (And How to Feel Close Again)
When you are upset, what does your guy do? Does he listen to you… Emotionally validate you… And support you until you feel better? Or does he vanish on you? When you need him, he’s just not there. If he WAS there, he’d just tell you not to get so upset. He’d tell you...
Feeling Lonely in Your Relationship?
When Briella fell for Nick, she knew she’d never be alone again. This was her twin flame. This was her soulmate. It was so easy to be with Nick that she found herself turning down invitations to go out with friends, so she could stay home with him. He understood her...
The Sad Reason Men LOVE It When You Compliment Them
If you were dating a guy, and he NEVER complimented you on how you looked… You’d think something was wrong! How hard is it to say, “You look nice”? A compliment lets you know he’s attracted to you. It shows he’s paying attention. When you turn on the radio and hear a...
When Your Boyfriend Makes You Feel Bad, This Might Help
When you text your guy and you don’t get a reply right away, how do you feel? When you’re in the mood to cuddle and your guy isn’t, how do you feel? When you ask your guy what the plans are for the weekend and he tells you he’s going to spend time with the guys… How...
Why It’s Not Selfish to Say No to Your Guy
I’m going to ask you a really tough question. Here it is. Your guy has asked you to do something you REALLY don’t want to do. Do you: Say yes … but end up feeling resentful? Say no … but end up feeling guilty? It’s impossible, right? Either way, you end up feeling...
What a Cup of Coffee Can Tell You about Your Relationship Mistakes
Bernadette was frustrated. “I did everything right, James,” she said. “I made sure to soften my approach, I talked about my feelings, I avoided blaming him … but I still think I might have wrecked everything.” Bernadette had been wanting to talk to her boyfriend...
When Dating Feels Like Rejection After Rejection…
When Jayla walked into my office, she didn’t smile or shake my hand. She shuffled over to the chair, sat down hard, and stared at me. She told me flat-out that she didn’t think I was going to be able to help her. She thought this was going to be a complete waste of...
It’s All His Fault
When everything goes wrong in your life, you know who to blame. It’s him. ? If he had been more supportive when you came home and told him about the problem you were having at work, you wouldn’t have been so upset. You’d probably be having a nice evening right now....
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!