Relationship Healing
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
The Conflict Conversation
When you were a teenager, how did you handle conflict with your friends? Did you talk them about how you felt? Were you able to clear the air and get it...
The Last Thing You Want to Do In A Relationship Crisis
Sarah stared at her phone. Her hands shook as she read and re-read the text. He was really doing it. He was breaking up with her. Her hands flew as she typed...
How to Get Over Someone You Never Dated
You still remember him. That guy you loved throughout high school, even though he never noticed you. The guy who played in your favorite band, even though you...
It’s All My Fault, Isn’t It?
When things go wrong with a guy… How often do you think to yourself, “It’s all my fault”? You feel like you did something wrong. You must have accidentally...
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Beyond “What’s Next”: Unlocking Joy in Your Current Relationship Stage”
You know what will make you happy. You’ll be happy when he finally commits. You’ll be happy when he gives up that habit that drives you crazy. You’ll be happy when you’re married and settled down with a family. But what if the thing you think will make you happy… Ends...
5 Reasons He Makes You Feel Like An Emotional Wreck
“I don’t get it, James,” Kate said. “I’m confident in every other area of my life. But when it comes to him, I’m a wreck.” She gave me a sad smile. Love makes a lot of us feel that way. No matter how competent and capable we usually feel, love brings up all our...
This Tool Helps You Navigate The Pain of a Breakup
As you can imagine, I’ve seen a lot of tears in my office. Love is an emotional topic. Some of the hardest moments happen during breakups. My clients tell me it hurts so much they can hardly breathe. They can’t bear it. They don’t know what to do. Should they beg him...
Why Do Guys Come On Strong Then Pull Away?
When Alyssa came into my office, she wasn’t the same woman I’d seen the week before. Her blond hair was limp and unwashed. She wasn’t wearing makeup. Her shoulders were slumped. “So, how’d your date go last week?” I asked. I knew she’d been looking forward to it. “It...
How to Heal a Broken Heart: 3 Tips
What’s the #1 reason people don’t get into relationships? You know this… It’s because they’re worried about getting hurt. And why are they worried? Because they’ve been there before. That first big breakup can scar you for life. The pain swamps you. You NEVER want to...
3 Steps to Broaching Difficult Conversations
“I don’t know what I did wrong, James!” she said. “I did everything I was supposed to. I planned out what I was going to say, I wasn’t critical, I asked for what I needed in the nicest way possible.” She rubbed her eyes with her sleeve. “And now he’s gone. All because...
Do You Know How You Feel? Really?
Something he’s doing is bothering you. You feel uncomfortable about the situation, so you call your best friend to talk about it. You explain what happened, and you try to put words to how you’re feeling. Are you mad at him? Do you feel left out? Do you feel triggered...
He Doesn’t Make Me Feel Special
He takes you for granted. He didn’t used to. He used to text you all the time. He used to beg to see you. Now? He never has time. He’s always got other things going on. How can you make him go back to the way he was? Do you: Greet him at the door dressed in your...
I Can’t Stop Thinking about My Ex
“Oh, James. I really messed it up.” Olivia was sitting in my office with her head in her hands. When she and her boyfriend broke up last month, she thought she’d handled it well. She kept her feelings under control. They had a mature conversation and parted on...
10 Reasons Why Your Ex Keeps Texting You After The Breakup
Why is he doing this? He’s still calling and texting you, even though he’s the one who broke up with you. He said he didn’t want a relationship. So why is he acting as if you’re still in one? Could it be that he’s missing you? Does he regret breaking up with you? Does...
Why He Won’t Say “I’m Sorry”
“Ow! You stepped on my foot!” Caitlin pushed her boyfriend away. “Well, you shouldn’t have been standing behind me!” Drake turned to face Caitlin, who was hunched over clutching her foot. “I was standing there because I was trying to help you,” she said, exasperated....
Signs You’re Emotionally Disconnected (And How to Feel Close Again)
When you are upset, what does your guy do? Does he listen to you… Emotionally validate you… And support you until you feel better? Or does he vanish on you? When you need him, he’s just not there. If he WAS there, he’d just tell you not to get so upset. He’d tell you...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!