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Why He Can’t Make You Happy (That’s Your Job)

Why He Can’t Make You Happy (That’s Your Job)

A friend has just gotten into a new relationship. What’s the one question you ask her to make sure she’s not tangled up with the wrong guy? “Are you happy?” Being happy. It’s the calling card of good relationships. If you’re with someone who’s good for you, then...

This Rage Reset Button Saves Good Relationships

This Rage Reset Button Saves Good Relationships

When was the last time you were upset? I mean REALLY upset. Like Stacy. “It was like there was liquid anger in my veins,” she said. “I was so mad.” Her boyfriend canceled their anniversary dinner because he thought the timing was “inconvenient” for his work schedule....

Is He Interested? You Probably Wouldn’t Know… But You Can

Is He Interested? You Probably Wouldn’t Know… But You Can

Can you tell when a guy is flirting with you? According to researchers, the answer is probably no. In a study published in 2014, only 36% of men could tell. And only 18% of women could tell. That’s right. Out of five women, only one is likely to notice when a guy is...

The Best Way to Find the Type of Guy You Really Want Online

The Best Way to Find the Type of Guy You Really Want Online

There’s a problem with online dating sites. It’s not that there aren’t enough guys using them. Or even enough good guys. The problem is that it’s incredibly difficult to find the specific type of man you want. Luckily, there’s a powerful tool all online dating sites...

Don’t Take This Well-Meaning Advice

Don’t Take This Well-Meaning Advice

Sometimes, people who want to make you happy give you really bad advice. For example… It’s frustrating to watch someone you care about agonize over a guy who doesn’t even know she exists. Her unreciprocated love doesn’t just make her suffer; it makes everyone around...

How to Use Mind Control to Get the Relationship You Want

How to Use Mind Control to Get the Relationship You Want

Have you ever seen a “mentalist” perform? Mentalists are stage magicians who specialize in “mind control” tricks. Here’s an example. The mentalist asks you to think of a number. While you’re thinking, he writes a number down on a clipboard right in front of you, but...

Don’t Let a Noisy Setting Kill Your Connection with a Guy

Don’t Let a Noisy Setting Kill Your Connection with a Guy

You smile at a cute guy across the room. He saunters over. And you start talking. Things are going great... Until the music starts blaring. Making talking impossible. And the lights dim. Making it hard to see each other. People dance, bumping into you. Which is...

The Magical Moment That Tells Him You’re Like No One Else

The Magical Moment That Tells Him You’re Like No One Else

It happens in every relationship. You say something, and there’s an awkward silence. Tension descends. Something’s wrong. You don’t know what. He looks away. His mouth is tight. Fear hits you in the gut. You’re losing him! You can’t let that happen. What you do next...

The Two Principles for Less Awkward Small Talk

The Two Principles for Less Awkward Small Talk

You’re out and about. You see a guy you’re interested in. You get his attention with welcoming body language. He approaches. Introductions occur. There’s a nervous, excited vibe between the two of you. But what follows is just… nothing. Silence. Because neither of you...

Attract Your Perfect Mate Using Nothing More than Your Expectations

Attract Your Perfect Mate Using Nothing More than Your Expectations

Everyone says, “I’ll believe it when I see it.” But what if that’s backwards? What if you can’t see something until you believe it’s possible? Let me give you an example. Every day, men smile at women they’d secretly love to get to know better. Women smile back,...

The Real Secret to Getting Him to Open Up

The Real Secret to Getting Him to Open Up

Have you ever wondered why men are so much more reluctant to share their feelings than women? The technical term for when a guy has a hard time talking about how he feels is “Normative Male Alexithymia.” That’s a ridiculously complicated way of saying that many men...

How to Work 60 Hours a Week and Still Find Time for Dating

How to Work 60 Hours a Week and Still Find Time for Dating

Maybe you work 60 hours a week. Or you have kids. Or a demanding social life. Or maybe you’re going to night classes for a career makeover. But you also want romance in your life. The problem is, you’re short on time. You cram as much as possible into each day. You...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy