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5 Ways to Say No to Him

5 Ways to Say No to Him

You finally meet someone you like… And he pressures you to do something you don’t want to do. You’re convinced he’ll lose interest in you if you don’t do it....

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How to Embrace The Problems in Your Relationship

How to Embrace The Problems in Your Relationship

You’ve felt it, haven’t you? The nagging suspicion that you’ll never be completely satisfied with your love life? You’re right. You won’t ever find everything you’re looking for . . . if you’re lucky. Buckle up and I’ll explain why that’s a good thing. Imagine a set...

What To Do When Your Guy Lets You Down

What To Do When Your Guy Lets You Down

Alaya remembered when she first started dating her husband. She had to leave for a week on a trip, and he did the most romantic thing. He loaded up his iPod with a special playlist and sent it with her. She never forgot the song that opened the playlist. It was a man...

Early-Stage Relationships: When to Quit.  When to Persevere.

Early-Stage Relationships: When to Quit. When to Persevere.

Are you the kind of person who gives up on new relationships a little too early? Or do you find that you stick with a less-than-ideal guy a little too long? Most of us tend to err on one side or the other. Which side do you lean toward? Fair warning, though. We’re...

The Secret to Instant Sex Appeal

The Secret to Instant Sex Appeal

Would you rather look sexier or feel sexier? What if you could have BOTH? You can. And no matter if you’re currently single or happily dating, the effect on your love life can be profoundly positive. There are many ways to feel sexier.  But...

A Curious Reason Explains Why Some Men Pull Away

A Curious Reason Explains Why Some Men Pull Away

There’s not a woman alive it hasn’t happened to. You think it’s going so well— Until he pulls back. He stops calling. He doesn’t reply to your texts. You have no idea where his attention has gone. If you’re lucky, he shows up one day, acting as if nothing happened....

4 Easy Ways to Enhance Conversation with Your Date

4 Easy Ways to Enhance Conversation with Your Date

Do you have a strategy for making a real connection with a guy when you go out? Would you like one? How about four? Because boy, oh boy does bad conversation get awkward when you’re on a date. You know the kind I mean. You sit down at the table, the waiter takes your...

Who’s Smarter in Love: Your Head, Your Heart, or Your Gut?

Who’s Smarter in Love: Your Head, Your Heart, or Your Gut?

When it comes to relationships, no one can make decisions for you. You’re the only one who knows what’s in your heart. But there’s a problem with listening to your heart. Your head doesn’t always agree. In fact, they often tell you two separate things. “Go ahead, text...

Low Self-Esteem Linked to Staying in Bad Relationships

Low Self-Esteem Linked to Staying in Bad Relationships

We’ve heard it a thousand times: Love yourself. If you don’t love yourself, you’ll settle for a man who doesn’t value you. That’s obvious, right? But looking back on your relationship history, you may be able to pick out quite a few exes who didn’t value you. Even a...

Why He Loves It When You Frustrate Him

Why He Loves It When You Frustrate Him

Picture this. You’ve got two dates lined up this week. Both are with equally handsome, accomplished, interesting men. Bachelor #1 is the perfect gentleman. Your two hours together fly by. He asks for your number and promises to call. Bachelor #2 is inconsistent. He...

One Argument Trap That’s Easy To Avoid

One Argument Trap That’s Easy To Avoid

Your brain is programmed to have a very specific reaction to fear. That reaction can save your life. But it can also wreck your relationships. Let’s take a quick trip back in time. Imagine you lived thousands of years ago, long before the world was civilized. Life was...

When to Trust Your Intuition in Romance

When to Trust Your Intuition in Romance

How much do you trust your intuition? In our culture, we talk a lot about women's intuition. A number of my clients have even told me that influential women in their lives encouraged them to always trust their intuition. Here's the picture we tend to paint. Men rely...

The “Effortless Mindset” for Stress-Free Success

The “Effortless Mindset” for Stress-Free Success

There are so many things in life you really want… But you don’t have. Like the perfect relationship. Or the perfect career. Or the perfect home. When clients come to me for help with getting what they want, I watch the pattern of their thoughts.  Because everyone...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

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