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3 Ways to Stop Settling

3 Ways to Stop Settling

“How do I know there’s not someone else out there for me?” Amanda asked. “What if I end up with the wrong person because I didn’t hold out for someone...

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No Man Could Ever Fall For Me

No Man Could Ever Fall For Me

Linda was tired. She was in her mid-fifties and didn’t look like she used to. Her face, her hair, her twenty pounds of extra weight… made her wonder what any...

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Text with Confidence

Text with Confidence

You stare at your phone… And a cold feeling settles into your gut. You re-read his text again. Is he mad at you for something? Is this supposed to be funny?...

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His Texts Are So Confusing!

His Texts Are So Confusing!

You pick up your phone and see a text from a guy you really liked who ghosted you last year. Is it an apology? Nope. Is it an explanation? Nope. It’s a “hey”...

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14 Days to Becoming Irresistible

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The Sure-Fire Way to Make Him Hot for You

The Sure-Fire Way to Make Him Hot for You

What if I told you there was one sure-fire scientifically-proven way to spice things up in your relationship? It’s used by relationship counselors in their own marriages.[1] It’s so powerful that it may even give a fertility boost to couples struggling to conceive....

How to Enjoy Dating and Reduce Stress

How to Enjoy Dating and Reduce Stress

Rank the following in order of importance to you in dating: Male attentionGetting a ringLanding the guy that got awayConnecting with someone Research shows that only ONE of those options is guaranteed to make you happier. Which one is it? I’ll tell you in a minute,...

Signs He Wants You Bad (What is he waiting for?)

Signs He Wants You Bad (What is he waiting for?)

When you’re really interested in a guy, how do you show it? Do you: Tell him straight off the bat?Flirt?Invade his personal space?Drop a hint to his friends? Each option has advantages and drawbacks. Telling him straight off the bat means you don’t have to wait around...

The Lesson Oprah Learned about Men

The Lesson Oprah Learned about Men

Even Oprah used to sit by the phone waiting for a guy to call. She’d stay off the phone in case he tried and got a busy signal. She wouldn’t go out to dump the trash or start a bath in case she missed hearing it ring. This was decades ago, when she wasn’t the...

Does He Deserve to Be Inside Your Circle of Trust?

Does He Deserve to Be Inside Your Circle of Trust?

Should you trust him? It’s a Catch 22. If you do trust him, you’re opening yourself up to getting hurt or betrayed. If you don’t trust him, you’ll never gain true intimacy. Has this ever happened to you? You trusted someone who shouldn’t have been trusted… Then...

The 5 Stages of a Relationship

The 5 Stages of a Relationship

It happened every time. Angelika would meet a man with potential. Someone she really, REALLY liked. She’d feel so full of hope. She’d see signs they were meant to be. Then she’d find out he wasn’t the man she thought he was. He had issues he hadn’t told her about. He...

Questions to Ask a Guy: The Rapid Intimacy Tool

Questions to Ask a Guy: The Rapid Intimacy Tool

Maybe there’s a guy you have a crush on. And maybe you’d like to move past awkward small talk with him so he can realize what an interesting person you are. In that case, it would be helpful to know the right questions to ask a guy. Questions that make him slip...

Social Media Etiquette for Online Dating

Social Media Etiquette for Online Dating

Olivia was thrilled when a guy messaged her back on Match.com. He was the only match she actually liked out of the dozens Match.com kept throwing at her. She couldn’t figure out how their algorithm thought she’d like these guys with their bushy beards, serial-killer...

The 5 Factors of a Flourishing Relationship

The 5 Factors of a Flourishing Relationship

Everyone thinks they know what makes a relationship work. Communication. Date nights. Never going to bed angry. All those things help. But they’re not enough. To have a happy relationship, you’ve got to be happy, he’s got to be happy, and you’ve got to feel like...

How to Spot an Energy Vampire

How to Spot an Energy Vampire

Everyone loves vampires. Correction: we love FICTIONAL vampires. We love vampires as long as we know they’re not going to show up in our homes to drink our blood. 😉 Vampires are all the rage right now in the world of fiction. But how did the idea of vampires find...

Why Your Standards in Love Are WAY Too Low

Why Your Standards in Love Are WAY Too Low

When you haven’t met anyone you’ve liked in a LONG time… You can get a bit antsy. Is the problem YOU? Are your standards too high? Are you not giving these guys a chance? There’s so much pressure to get it right. To pick the right person. To not overlook a diamond in...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

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