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His Texts Are So Confusing!
You pick up your phone and see a text from a guy you really liked who ghosted you last year. Is it an apology? Nope. Is it an explanation? Nope. It’s a “hey”...
Guys Want You to Tease Them
When you go out on a date with someone new, what is your goal? To impress him. To get to know him. To ramp up the heat. To get playful. Now, we all hope that...
Make Better Decisions in Love
Do you make good decisions in love? Let’s find out! Question #1: You like a guy at work. Despite your best efforts to get him to ask you out, it’s clear that...
Are You Accidentally Telling Him It’s Casual?
Naleda was a vibrant 22-year-old who oozed confidence. She made direct eye contact and shook my hand firmly. As she settled into a chair, I asked her why...
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The Lesson Oprah Learned about Men
Even Oprah used to sit by the phone waiting for a guy to call. She’d stay off the phone in case he tried and got a busy signal. She wouldn’t go out to dump the trash or start a bath in case she missed hearing it ring. This was decades ago, when she wasn’t the...
Does He Deserve to Be Inside Your Circle of Trust?
Should you trust him? It’s a Catch 22. If you do trust him, you’re opening yourself up to getting hurt or betrayed. If you don’t trust him, you’ll never gain true intimacy. Has this ever happened to you? You trusted someone who shouldn’t have been trusted… Then...
The 5 Stages of a Relationship
It happened every time. Angelika would meet a man with potential. Someone she really, REALLY liked. She’d feel so full of hope. She’d see signs they were meant to be. Then she’d find out he wasn’t the man she thought he was. He had issues he hadn’t told her about. He...
The Narcissist Test: 13 Questions That Reveal If You’re Dating a Narcissist
Remember those immature guys you used to date? (At least, I’m hoping it was all in the past!) They never thought about you, unless you were useful to them. If you came down with a cold, there’s no way they’d drop by with soup and a movie. They only wanted to be around...
Questions to Ask a Guy: The Rapid Intimacy Tool
Maybe there’s a guy you have a crush on. And maybe you’d like to move past awkward small talk with him so he can realize what an interesting person you are. In that case, it would be helpful to know the right questions to ask a guy. Questions that make him slip...
Social Media Etiquette for Online Dating
Olivia was thrilled when a guy messaged her back on Match.com. He was the only match she actually liked out of the dozens Match.com kept throwing at her. She couldn’t figure out how their algorithm thought she’d like these guys with their bushy beards, serial-killer...
The 5 Factors of a Flourishing Relationship
Everyone thinks they know what makes a relationship work. Communication. Date nights. Never going to bed angry. All those things help. But they’re not enough. To have a happy relationship, you’ve got to be happy, he’s got to be happy, and you’ve got to feel like...
How to Spot an Energy Vampire
Everyone loves vampires. Correction: we love FICTIONAL vampires. We love vampires as long as we know they’re not going to show up in our homes to drink our blood. 😉 Vampires are all the rage right now in the world of fiction. But how did the idea of vampires find...
Why Your Standards in Love Are WAY Too Low
When you haven’t met anyone you’ve liked in a LONG time… You can get a bit antsy. Is the problem YOU? Are your standards too high? Are you not giving these guys a chance? There’s so much pressure to get it right. To pick the right person. To not overlook a diamond in...
How Your Social Network Can Wreck (or Support) Your Relationship
Question 1. Would you date someone your parents didn’t approve of? Question 2. Would you date someone your friends didn’t approve of? The research is in. The days of listening to parents are over. You’re much more likely to be swayed by your friends’ opinion....
When You Love Him More Than ANYONE… And He Treats You Like You’re Nothing
Laila couldn’t stop thinking about Donovan. They’d never really been in a relationship. He wasn’t the settling-down kind. But every time she went out with him, she felt like she was playing the star role in her ultimate fantasy. Donovan was everything she thought a...
The ‘Kiss Test’ That Makes Men Behave Inappropriately
You’re on a date with someone you met through an online dating site. You picked him carefully, because you have standards. You don’t go out with anyone who doesn’t look nice or doesn’t treat you with respect. It’s a half-hour into the date, and you’re starting to...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
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