Create True Commitment
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
How to Keep Stress from Killing Your Relationship
How’s your stress level? Are there days when you feel overloaded? Days when, as much as you care about him, stress affects how you treat your guy? Anna would...
Be Friends with Your Man (Just Not All The Time)
Do you consider your partner a friend? You should. Sometimes. The French philosopher Jean de la Bruyere once said, “Love and friendship exclude each other.”...
3 Rules You Need to Know about Men
I can’t get away with saying that men aren’t complicated. Women don’t believe me. They’ve been on the receiving end of too many mystifying texts or...
Get Your Love Life Moving Faster by Setting Goals
There are two schools of thought when it comes to dating. School #1 says: “It will happen when it happens.” Don’t force things. Trust that it’s all happening...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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Deepen Communication With This Method
Some of the most interesting things people have learned about communication have come from the field of couples therapy. There is one intimacy-deepening communication method that has spread from counseling rooms to business board rooms and even to government training...
Want Romantic Bliss? Use My Top 10 List for Choosing a Lifelong Partner
Here is my top ten list of qualities you will want to look for in a man. I share this list with you as a dating coach, but also as a person with a deep desire to see good women end up with worthy men. I want YOU to end up with someone who will treasure his...
Protect Yourself from False Relationships. And Get A Guy That Makes Your Heart Sing
Angie was excited when she met Scott. He seemed to be everything she wanted. An embodiment of the very affirmation she held over the past two months while working with me as her relationship coach. I knew she was truly smitten with love when she said, "He just makes...
Communication Problems With Guys
Now let me ask you, do you believe yourself to be a good communicator? Most women are good at communication, certainly when compared to their male counterparts. Yet as a dating coach, one of the most common issues I discuss with women is the frustration of...
Leverage vs. Brute Force in Dating
Modern society owes all of its success to the power of leverage. Regardless of your ethnic background, all of our ancestors started out hunting, fishing, or farming for their own little family or tribe. At some point, cultures became sophisticated enough with trade...
You: The Untold Story
A few months ago I was reading in my home office. As usual, it was psychology-oriented reading material. But the particular topic had to do with the unusual challenges faced by charitable organizations. Perhaps this comes as no surprise to you, but the author was...
Guys and Emotions: Why won’t he open up?
Lets talk about guys and emotions. Here are some insights you may find useful on this topic. Men have just as many emotions as women. Hard to believe right =) So why don't they open up about their emotions? Why does everything have to be about the logic of the...
The #1 Method For Building Emotional Intimacy With A Man
Men put up a tough exterior, but inside they crave affirmation of their manliness. They crave respect. Men feel so strongly about respect and disrespect that the absence of it can end a relationship. Why have you never heard of this before? It's because of several...
Getting Specific About The Kind Of Man You Want
Now in my last post we discussed the concept of propinquity. We talked about propinquity as an important variable to manipulate in your favor. In this post I'll explain why it's important to get very specific about the kinds of traits you want to find in an ideal...
The Secret “P Word” That Will Make Or Break Your Relationships
Now you might be wondering about that secret “P word”. It’s “Propinquity”. Propinquity is a term used by social psychologists to refer to the likelihood of interaction between two people. If you are very likely to interact with Jake several times each day, you have...
How To Discuss Where the Relationship Is Going
How can you have "the talk" about where the relationship is going without creating a negative experience? First of all, you should. You absolutely should talk about where the relationship is going. People often joke that men always bolt when women try to have a talk...
Why “energy management” matters more than “time management”
Think back to a sleepy Wednesday afternoon at work. On a day when you felt uninspired, your energy was low, and your mind was wandering aimlessly. Having trouble remembering a time like this? It may be hard to remember because it's just not memorable. In this article,...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!