Create True Commitment
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
Know That You’re His One-and-Only
A long time ago, I was standing in one of those lines. You know the ones. Glaciers move faster. Might as well pitch a tent and break out the freeze-dried...
What Does Respect in a Relationship Look Like?
“She doesn’t respect me, so why should I have to respect her?” Dillon leaned forward, certain I’d agree with him. But Jayla cut in with a shrug of her...
3 Signs He Wants a Relationship But is Scared to Commit
Jade came to me with a clear focus for what she wanted to work on. “I want to show my boyfriend that he can trust me,” she said. “He had a really toxic...
Go Ahead, Get Mad at Him (Just Do This First)
He did it again. That THING that annoys you. You know better than to talk to him about it. You’ve tried that. Nothing changes. So you keep your mouth shut....
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The Best Way to Introduce Your New Boyfriend
The two of you bump into an acquaintance. "Oh! Jane! Hi. Nice to see you too. Uh, yes, this is my...my..." My what? You can't skip the introduction. That would be rude. But what if you haven't had a "state of the relationship" talk? What if nothing's been defined?...
How to Handle Criticism from Your Partner
Pamela looks at her friend with wide eyes. "How did you respond?" she asks. Jenn is clearly on edge. "What do you think I said? I told him I don't appreciate all the negativity. I mean, it's not like he's perfect. I don't want to date someone who's just going to...
Here’s A Quick Way to Energize Conversations with Your Man
Any positive memory can give you an instant energy boost. Let me show you how. Several years ago, I read a study about vacations. The researchers were trying to determine how to make the relaxing feeling of being on vacation last as long as possible. Believe it or...
Why Rushing a Relationship Decreases Your Enjoyment
Jessica is busy. She has a chaotic job, often requiring hours of overtime. She rushes frantically from meeting to meeting, always just barely pulling it off. Somehow, she juggles that with family, outings with friends, daily workouts, and (most recently) …dating. When...
Your Crush: “She’s Just So Refreshing.”
Angie was excited when she met Scott. He seemed to be everything she wanted. An embodiment of the very affirmation she held over the past two months while working with me as her relationship coach. I knew she was truly smitten with love when she said, "He just makes...
Avoid this Holiday Romance Mistake
The holidays can be a wonderful time for relationships. Or they can wreak havoc on your dating life. It all depends on whether or not you manage to avoid one critical mistake. A lot of people roll into the holiday season thinking the festivities will give them unique...
Do Men Fear Commitment, Or Is It Something Else?
The idea that men are afraid of commitment is universally accepted. Most of us think of it as a given, assuming men and commitment just don't mix. But this common perception is fundamentally flawed. Men aren't really afraid of commitment, and never have been. I know....
The Insignificant Compliment that Grabs His Attention
Sometimes one small thing can make a big difference, especially in relationships. The key is knowing what small things to focus on. While there are plenty of differences between men and women, there are some ways in which we’re exactly the same. I’d like to share one...
“I’m Too Damaged” 2 Reasons to Believe Him
If a guy tells you he's too damaged, too depressed, or too anything else, take him at his word. Do you remember that Cold Play song, "Fix You?" The chorus said, "Lights will guide you home, and ignite your bones, and I will try to fix you." That was the most popular...
The Shadow in Your Relationship
Janice wasn’t trying to snoop. She was just looking up movie times. Her phone was in the other room, so she grabbed Brad’s off the coffee table. But before she could fire up his browser and do a quick internet search, he got a text message from someone named Cheryl....
The Healing Phrase
I once sat with a couple during their argument. She was upset, and she let him have it. She accused him of several hurtful mistakes. When she paused, he admitted he'd screwed up and said, "I'm sorry." She looked at him blankly for a moment, and then continued her...
How to Build Happy Memories with Your Guy
I have a friend who writes down happy memories on scraps of paper. She folds each one and keeps them all in a jar. When the jar is full, she sits down with a cup of coffee and reads the notes. It's such a simple thing, but it refreshes each memory in her mind. It...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!