Create True Commitment
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
Love Lessons of the Rich and Famous
“I found myself in relationships that ended in hurt no matter how hard I tried. I was always focused on one thing. I always tried to be the perfect...
Make Him Change!
Natalia came into my office distraught. It was her boyfriend again. Nothing she said to him made a bit of difference. He was driving her crazy. I nodded as...
The 6th Love Language
Kylie didn’t understand what went wrong. It was all going so well. Chase was funny and cute and warm and shy, and she loved spending time with him. She did...
When He Won’t Grow Up
Many women ask me the question, “How can I make him grow up?” Many men are mature, respectful, and excellent at getting things done. Yet this immaturity thing...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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More Commitment Articles
Getting What You Want From Your Guy
Tell me if you've heard this one. There's an old metaphor people sometimes use to describe relationships. They say relationships are like a checking account. You make deposits when you do something nice or meaningful for your man. When you need something from him,...
Getting Your Romance In Alignment with the Rest of Your Life
Have you ever given thought to how much influence your man has over your life? Both day-to-day happiness, and your overall direction? His influence is profound. If you were a fan of the TV show The Office, you've seen a fictional version of this in action. By the end...
What to Do When Your Relationship Gets Sick
Imagine this scenario. You wake up one morning feeling kind of crummy. You've got a slight fever, and your throat feels like sandpaper. Didn’t someone at the office have strep last week? Crap. You go to your doctor, fully expecting him to diagnose you with the strep...
The Mistake Everyone Makes When Moving Their Relationship Forward
Here’s how relationships are supposed to go: Meet. Date. Fall in love. Become official. Spend most of your free time together. Get engaged. Get married. Have kids. Live happily ever after. When you follow the timeline, you know exactly what comes next. Are you falling...
When It’s Time for a Romantic Upgrade
I don’t know about you, but the last month before I upgrade my phone is painful. By then, my old phone feels outdated and sluggish. It doesn’t have enough storage, can’t really handle the apps I use daily, and, maybe worst of all, it’s just not exciting anymore. More...
Restore the Closeness with Repair Attempts
You’re hanging out with someone you really care about when it happens… You say the wrong thing. He goes silent. His jaw tightens. Tension floods the room. You’re desperately trying to think of a way to take it back when he stands up. “I gotta go. Catch you later.”...
The Weekend-Trigger: Renew Your Romance
You know how it feels when you first start dating someone? Every detail about them is exciting. The process of getting to know them can be spell-binding. That's why you'll stay on the phone for HOURS, even if you're not really a long-phone-call kind of person. The...
How to Make the Most of Weekends with Your Man
Do you ever feel like you have two full-time jobs? First, you’ve got your 40-hour gig. That’s the job that ensures food and shelter. And then there’s the time you have to invest to keep a good relationship going. Recently, I was talking to my friend, Julia. She and...
Stop Old Arguments from Wrecking Your Relationship Rhythm
Try this quick experiment. I’ll explain why in a bit. Think about the last time your boyfriend did something really irritating. For just a moment, 30 seconds tops, remember every detail you can. Got a specific annoyance in mind? Good. Okay, the next part is the...
How to Get Over Your Ex Faster (and Move on to the Right Guy)
How to Get Over Your Ex Faster (and Move on to the Right Guy) Moving on after you break up with someone isn’t rocket science. Ask anyone, and they’ll tell you: it takes time. But this can be frustrating. Especially if you want to get back out there and find someone....
“His Secret Obsession” Is the Key to James Bauer’s Relationship Course for Women
What is “his secret obsession”? We talk about being “obsessed” a lot. Like when we’re obsessed with a certain TV show. When we can’t get enough of a favorite food. When we can’t put down a book. When we obsess over a desired goal. Obsession has become a catch-all term...
Go One Step Deeper than Good Communication
If you spend even a little time reading up on what makes a relationship work, you’ll come across a lot of advice on improving communication. Happy couples have good communication, right? Well, yes. But are they happy because they have good communication, or do they...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
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