Create True Commitment
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
When He Won’t Talk
What do you do when the man you love won’t talk to you or work on your problems? That’s what Joyce wanted to know. She showed up in my office, a graceful...
From Fizzling to Sizzling
Barbara needed my advice. She explained that she was dating a wonderful man. They were both in their sixties. They both had adult children and he ran his own...
5 Ways to Make His Day
You wish you could do something special for him. He works so hard, and you appreciate him so much. You want to put a smile on his face, but you don’t always...
When You Think He’s Cheating
Bonnie had been with her guy ever since college. But they’d been long-distance ever since he moved to get his master’s degree. It was only two years. She knew...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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More Commitment Articles
He’s Not Sure If He Can Commit
It's heartbreaking to fall in love with a guy who isn't sure. He's not sure he's in the right place for a relationship. He's not sure he can commit again. He’s been burned in the past. He's not sure he can be the man you need him to be. Even as he pushes you away, you...
A Threat to Your Relationship?
“I am so mad, James.” Lauryn threw her purse onto the table and sat down with a sigh. “You know that great guy I’ve been bragging to you about? I think he’s cheating on me.” I looked at her with concern. Not even her immaculate makeup could hide her fatigue. “That...
5 Fun Relationship Tests
How do you know if he’s the one? Hint: the answer is NOT to take a 15-second TikTok challenge. Relationship tests have sprung up across social media, promising a window into your future as a couple. If your guy passes the test, then your relationship gets a vote of...
Look For This Sign You’re Meant to Be
What’s the clearest sign you’re meant to be with a guy? For many women, it’s how they feel about him. The stronger your love, the stronger your conviction that you’re meant to be. But researchers who study lasting relationships find that love is necessary but not...
7 Love Strategies
You want to be the best partner you can be. You want to show him how adored he is. You want to make him so happy he’ll want to be with you forever. How do you do that? You might: Meet his needs before he realizes he has them. Ask very little from him. Be the “perfect...
I Dare You to Have This Conversation
Is everything going well with you and your guy? Great, even? Then it might be time to have A Talk. No, not that kind of talk! But rather a Relationship Check-in. It’s like a tune-up for your bond, making sure you’re still in sync. When you first started dating, you...
Great Relationships Include Safety
When you think about what makes a truly amazing relationship, what comes to mind? You might think of: Compatibility. The two of you are alike in the ways that count. Chemistry. You’re physically attracted to each other. Communication. You can talk about things....
5 Ways to Talk About Commitment (Without Talking About Commitment)
When you meet a man you really like, you don’t feel like keeping your options open. You want to be with him and only him. So you give him the best gift of all: Your complete and whole-hearted commitment. You keep your weekends open for him. You take down your dating...
5 Steps to Changing His Mind
Ever been in a situation where your guy just won’t budge? He’s convinced he’s got it all figured out. He won’t listen. It’s like hitting a brick wall. You turn to your friends for advice, and what do they say? “Reward him for doing it your way.” “Make him think it was...
He Won’t Put Effort In
For many young people, living in a dorm or a shared apartment is a rite of passage. You’re away from your parents for the first time, and it’s up to you to keep your living environment clean. Many of us also remember the frustration of having a roommate who didn’t do...
The Relationship “Golden Rule” Is Different
Leia was upset. “He knows how much I care about him, James!” she told me. “Before he left, I told him he could take all the time in the world. I would be here for him. I loved him, and I wasn’t going anywhere.” “And how did he respond?” I asked. From her pained...
From Casual to Committed: The Boring Paradox
Why do most new relationships fail? Because they can’t make it through the Crunch. The Crunch is the transition from having fun together to making a life together. Everyone wants to have fun. Having fun is innately rewarding. But making a life together is only fun...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
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