Avoid the Text Spiral

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week Do you read too much into texts? Have you agonized over a message that shows it as “Read” but with no reply? This overanalysis might be hurting your chances at real connection. When you start dating, talk about each other’s...

Are Nice People More Attractive?

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week A Chinese study found there may be a scientific foundation for the proverb, “Beauty comes from within.” How so? Participants were asked to rate the attractiveness of strangers’ photos. They were given positive, negative, or...

Self-Compassion Glow

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week You step out of the shower. It’s two hours before a date. Things are new and going well. You feel excited and nervous. But as fog clears the mirror, you look at your face. Hmm. Not quite symmetrical. Brown hair sticks to...

Improve Relationship Fitness by Exercising with Your Partner

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week The concept of a workout buddy isn’t a new one. Working out with someone can keep you both more motivated. And consequently improve your health and fitness. But what happens when you work out with your man? According to new...

How to Love the One You Want

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week You’ve probably heard of “love languages” at this point. Right? Words of affirmation. Touch. Acts of service. Gifts. Quality time. They’re fine concepts. But how do you use them to win a guy’s affection? Start here: Fine...

Break Up So You Can Both Move On?

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week Do you hate breaking up with people? Even if you know it’s not a good fit?  Dating is a “trial and error” process. Sure, it could lead to a magical love story. But most of the time, we simply learn why we don’t click. And...