Develop Irresistible Attraction
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
From Friends to Lovers
You’ve got this amazing friend.... And something’s changed. You’ve started to feel more than friendship. You catch yourself thinking about him in a different...
Fascination Factor: 3 Ways to Keep Him Fascinated with You
When do you feel most drawn towards your partner? This is one of Esther Perel’s favorite questions. She’s asked this question to audiences around the world,...
The Two Faces of Passion
He is your everything. There’s nothing you’d rather do than be with him. You’d face any obstacle to be by his side. Without him, life feels meaningless....
The Addiction That’s Stronger Than Candy Crush
Who would you rather spend time with: Your best friend Your co-workers Your mother, or Your boyfriend? Being with certain people gives us great pleasure....
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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More Attraction Articles
Three Single Women Walk Into A Bar…
Three single friends go out for a girls night on the town. One of the women is highly attractive. Another is super friendly. The last flirts with everyone. Which friend is most likely to spark a connection with a guy on their evening out? Well, Isn’t It Obvious? The...
Believing in Soulmates Can Lead You to Love
In some circles, it’s not fashionable to believe in soulmates. Who would believe there’s just one person out there for you—in this day and age? There’s no such thing as soulmates, the cynics say. Just the right person for right now. But people have believed in...
How to Spot Commitment-Minded Guys
When Dora met her college boyfriend, they were instantly inseparable. She knew from the beginning that they’d be together forever. They talked about the future. Even their parents assumed they’d get married. But as graduation neared, her boyfriend began pulling away....
How to Be Remarkable
How brave are you? Do you have what it takes to try one of the riskiest (and, ironically, most successful) dating strategies out there? All it takes is being remarkable. Take a Risk or Play It Safe The safest dating advice is to find out what the average man finds...
A More Attractive Face from Mindfulness?
A friend of mine took up yoga in her 40s. She wanted to improve her flexibility. She was starting to feel stiff in the mornings. But she stuck with it after she discovered how it made her feel on a psychological level. She said it was like “spending quality time with...
Why Don’t Guys Notice Me?
Every day I see women who are smart, attractive, warm, engaging, ready and eager to find love… Except that they can’t meet anyone. Their dating life is a desert. They feel like they’re doing the work. They’ve put up online dating profiles. They invest good money in...
How You Can Mistake Attraction (And How to Use This to Your Advantage!)
Lisa Feldman Barrett said yes to a date. Truth be told, she didn’t even like the guy. He was in her psychology program, and she didn’t know him very well. But she’d been stuck in the lab all day, so she agreed to meet up for coffee. As she sat in the coffee shop with...
Why Don’t Guys Notice Me?
Not to boast, but you’re a pretty awesome person. You look after yourself. You’re kind. You’re positive. You make other people feel good. So why are you still single? Why don’t guys even notice you? The Changing World of Dating My older clients tell me dating was...
5 Surprising Things Men Find Beautiful in Women
Magazines are full of pictures of beautiful women. Women with perfect bodies. Women with glossy hair. Women who look amazing, relaxed, and radiant. You look at those pictures in magazines, then you look in the mirror. And you wonder: What do men see when they look at...
3 Tips to Make Your Profile Pic Catch His Eye
You know your photo matters more than it should. Even on online dating platforms like eHarmony, which prioritize compatibility over looks, men spend more time looking at photos than they do reading your profile. OkCupid found that text contributes to less than 10% of...
How to Get Him on a Date
You know exactly how to ace a first date. But you’re not exactly swimming with invitations. You meet men you like, but they’re content to “see you around” or bump into you sometime. Most don’t even ask for your phone number. Dates have gone out of style. They’re too...
Want to Spot Mr. Right? Watch Out for Noise
Will you spot the love of your life at first sight? In today’s world, you almost HAVE to. You’ve only got a fraction of a second to swipe before it’s onto the next profile. If your dating instincts aren’t spot-on, you might pass over The One and never realize it....
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!