3 Criteria to Spot an Emotionally Healthy Man

“I want to find me a mature man. A guy who’s responsible, who treats me right, who doesn’t come with a whole lotta baggage I’m supposed to fix for him. Where is he, James? Can you find me this man?” Taraji was on fire. She leaned forward to emphasize her words. There...

How to Spot a Guy’s Underlying Character

Do you know how to spot a guy’s underlying character? If you don’t, it’s all too easy to end up with a guy who’s not worth your time. Here’s what I mean. Jenn and Lisa are best friends. Both recently started dating someone new. Like most friends, they compare notes....

The Four Tendencies in Relationships

Have you ever dated someone who never got off the couch? You knew he had amazing potential, but he never did anything with it. Trying to motivate him was a waste of time. Or maybe you’ve dated the opposite: Someone whose time was scheduled down to the minute. He never...

When You Should (and Shouldn’t) Say Yes to a Second Date

Picture this. You’re out with a friend. She’s shoe shopping, and you’ve agreed to lend your fashion advice. You walk into a store with no intention of buying anything for yourself, but the moment you enter it washes over you. The scent of leather....

How to Embrace The Problems in Your Relationship

You’ve felt it, haven’t you? The nagging suspicion that you’ll never be completely satisfied with your love life? You’re right. You won’t ever find everything you’re looking for . . . if you’re lucky. Buckle up and I’ll explain why that’s a good thing. Imagine a set...