How Do You Know if You’re Compatible with Someone?

When I ran into my friend Kalia the other day, I was amazed at how relaxed and happy she looked. Her hair was styled in the same light brown bob as always, and she was casually dressed in jeans and a t-shirt, but she looked like she’d stepped straight off the plane...

Do You Have Chemistry with Him? (The #1 Factor that Matters Most!)

You’re getting ready to go out on a first date with a guy you met online. What’s the single most important factor in determining whether you have chemistry? How much you have in commonHow well you flirtHow you lookHow you smell I’ll tell you the answer in just a...

3 Criteria to Spot an Emotionally Healthy Man

“I want to find me a mature man. A guy who’s responsible, who treats me right, who doesn’t come with a whole lotta baggage I’m supposed to fix for him. Where is he, James? Can you find me this man?” Taraji was on fire. She leaned forward to emphasize her words. There...

How to Spot a Guy’s Underlying Character

Do you know how to spot a guy’s underlying character? If you don’t, it’s all too easy to end up with a guy who’s not worth your time. Here’s what I mean. Jenn and Lisa are best friends. Both recently started dating someone new. Like most friends, they compare notes....

The Four Tendencies in Relationships

Have you ever dated someone who never got off the couch? You knew he had amazing potential, but he never did anything with it. Trying to motivate him was a waste of time. Or maybe you’ve dated the opposite: Someone whose time was scheduled down to the minute. He never...