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When He Doesn’t Let You In

When He Doesn’t Let You In

Jessica dated Kevin for 7 months. In that time, she never met his family. She was never welcomed into his close circle of friends. He was often vague about his schedule. He even avoided deep conversations, especially about the future. After more than half a year, in...

Disappearing Reappearing Love

Disappearing Reappearing Love

Today we’re talking about why the feeling of love seems to suddenly disappear during arguments between lovers. But I need to start with a quick story. A king gave his wise men a challenge. “Create a ring that will make me happy when I am sad.” The wise men succeeded....

When Less Is More

When Less Is More

Minimalism is a growing trend in the world of fashion. It refers to the idea of whittling your wardrobe down to just a few pieces that can easily be mixed and matched. It's all about putting the essentials front and center and removing the fluff. Really, that's what...

Three Nonromantic Tendencies to Encourage

Three Nonromantic Tendencies to Encourage

No, the title isn't a typo. It may seem counter intuitive, but some of the non-romantic things guys do signal that your relationship is actually moving forward. When he does one of the following three things, don't discourage him. What he does: Act protective of you....

The Relationship Dance

The Relationship Dance

Anne Taylor Fleming said, "A long marriage is two people trying to dance a duet and two solos at the same time." Any committed relationship is that way. The first hurdle is simply sharing what you want--your hopes and dreams, your wants and needs. It's no small thing...

When he clams up, do this.

When he clams up, do this.

Men sometimes clam up. Try as hard as you want, there are times when it feels impossible to get your guy to talk. You've likely been there. You know something is bothering him. You're sure of it. Maybe you know of a specific issue he's dealing with, or maybe he's just...

The Apology Hack that Gets Better Results than “I’m sorry”

The Apology Hack that Gets Better Results than “I’m sorry”

Which of these apologies sounds more powerful coming from your man? "I'm sorry your feelings got hurt." "I'm sorry I hurt your feelings." Have you ever gotten an apology that didn't feel like an apology at all? It didn't really make you feel better, did it? Apologies...

Not Your Reality

Not Your Reality

Singer Tyrese Gibson recently went on a rant about how the media portrays relationships. Especially so-called reality TV shows. "You find yourself arguing and having issues at your house and in your marriage and in your family that are directly influenced from the...

Not Sure If He Likes You?

Not Sure If He Likes You?

It's a common scenario. You like a guy. There's been some interaction, but you can't tell if the feeling is mutual. You flirt, sometimes with success, but you'd really like to know if you're wasting your time. Does he like you back or not? When that happens, the...

What does “Aging Gracefully” mean?

What does “Aging Gracefully” mean?

Melissa Stetten is in her late twenties. She's worried about getting old and "hitting her expiration date" as a model. She puts herself through all kinds of facial treatments to maintain her youthful appearance. Ironically, she hasn't even made it past her battle with...

Heard It from A Friend who…

Heard It from A Friend who…

You're dating someone new, and none of your friends approve. The independent thinker in you wants to believe you know what you're doing, thank you very much. The rebel in you wants to tell your friends where they can stick their opinions. And the crowd-pleaser in you...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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