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How You Can Mistake Attraction (And How to Use This to Your Advantage!)
Lisa Feldman Barrett said yes to a date. Truth be told, she didn’t even like the guy. He was in her psychology program, and she didn’t know him very well. But...
3 Secrets You Must Know about Men
Look, I get it. As a man who helps women achieve happier romantic outcomes with guys, I know it sometimes seems like men are from another planet. You don’t...
Make Him Change!
Natalia came into my office distraught. It was her boyfriend again. Nothing she said to him made a bit of difference. He was driving her crazy. I nodded as...
He Doesn’t Make Me Feel Special
He takes you for granted. He didn’t used to. He used to text you all the time. He used to beg to see you. Now? He never has time. He’s always got other things...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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How to Have All the Romance and None of the Regret
Do you have any relationship regrets? Things you said or did you wish you could take back? Things you didn’t do that you wish you had? You might think, “Well sure, James. Most of us do.” And you’d be right...as long as you take into account a surprising statistic. On...
Getting Your Romance In Alignment with the Rest of Your Life
Have you ever given thought to how much influence your man has over your life? Both day-to-day happiness, and your overall direction? His influence is profound. If you were a fan of the TV show The Office, you've seen a fictional version of this in action. By the end...
What to Do When Your Relationship Gets Sick
Imagine this scenario. You wake up one morning feeling kind of crummy. You've got a slight fever, and your throat feels like sandpaper. Didn’t someone at the office have strep last week? Crap. You go to your doctor, fully expecting him to diagnose you with the strep...
Don’t Miss this “Accidental” Kind of Romance
If this has ever happened to you, you know how frustrating it is. You're single. You're not happy about it. You lament to a friend, someone who is NOT single, and she smiles benevolently. Then she says the one thing all single people hate to hear: "Maybe if you stop...
The Mistake Everyone Makes When Moving Their Relationship Forward
Here’s how relationships are supposed to go: Meet. Date. Fall in love. Become official. Spend most of your free time together. Get engaged. Get married. Have kids. Live happily ever after. When you follow the timeline, you know exactly what comes next. Are you falling...
When Date Night Becomes Dull, Do This
Remember how excited you were about that first date? You got ready with butterflies in your stomach. Primping and prepping to perfection. You agonized over your outfit. It was nerve-wracking and fun at the same time. Anticipation filled the air. Now, compare that to...
When It’s Time for a Romantic Upgrade
I don’t know about you, but the last month before I upgrade my phone is painful. By then, my old phone feels outdated and sluggish. It doesn’t have enough storage, can’t really handle the apps I use daily, and, maybe worst of all, it’s just not exciting anymore. More...
How to Go From Casual Dating to a Serious Relationship
Do you know what a "relationship bomb" is? Even if you’ve never heard that phrase, you’ve probably dealt with a few. A relationship bomb is a situation where things could easily blow up in your face. Here’s a common relationship bomb: the dreaded...
Restore the Closeness with Repair Attempts
You’re hanging out with someone you really care about when it happens… You say the wrong thing. He goes silent. His jaw tightens. Tension floods the room. You’re desperately trying to think of a way to take it back when he stands up. “I gotta go. Catch you later.”...
3 Ways to Let Him Know You Need Him Without Appearing Needy
Neediness has gotten a bad rap. You shouldn’t need a man. You should be independent and self-sufficient. You should seek a partner to complement you, not complete you. Those “shoulds” come from everywhere. Culture. Advice columns. Friends. It’s not surprising that...
The Weekend-Trigger: Renew Your Romance
You know how it feels when you first start dating someone? Every detail about them is exciting. The process of getting to know them can be spell-binding. That's why you'll stay on the phone for HOURS, even if you're not really a long-phone-call kind of person. The...
How to Argue with Your Man—and Feel Better Afterward
If you're on Facebook (or any other social media site), you've probably seen people fight online. Someone lobs an opinion out there like a grenade, and then KA-BLAM! The ensuing "discussion" is rarely an open exchange of maturely cultivated points of view. But there’s...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.