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Stop Waiting on Him to Change

Stop Waiting on Him to Change

So many of the women who come to me know exactly what needs to change in their love situation… HIM. They want him to do something or feel something. He...

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Can He Grow Old with You?

Can He Grow Old with You?

If you want a long-term relationship, you look for a man who says he wants one, too. If you want to get married someday, you look for a man who says he wants...

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Should you stick with a difficult relationship?

Should you stick with a difficult relationship?

Should you stick with a difficult relationship? It’s a question that divides a lot of people. (Ask it on a first date, and you’ll learn a lot about him.) Some believe relationships should be easy. If you’re struggling, it’s because there’s something wrong. You’re not...

Should You Be Your True Self with Men?

Should You Be Your True Self with Men?

How far would you be willing to go to meet someone? There seems to be two schools of thought. The first says that you should always be yourself, no matter what. Don’t wear a lot of makeup, because if he doesn’t find the “real you” attractive, then he’s not worth...

The Urgency Principle Can Make Guys Choose You

The Urgency Principle Can Make Guys Choose You

You’re chatting with a gorgeous guy on Tinder. Not only is he super-hot, but he’s let you know in no uncertain terms how attractive he finds you. Without intending it, your conversation has gotten a bit dirty. Sexual innuendos, double entendres, and suggestions that...

Stop Underestimating Yourself

Stop Underestimating Yourself

Sheryl Sandberg was a fraud. She was chief operating officer at Facebook. Forbes had named her the 5th most powerful woman in the world—even above former First Lady Michelle Obama. Yet she was plagued by the feeling that it had all been a big mistake. She knew she...

You Can Feel More Confident

You Can Feel More Confident

You’re on a first date with someone you met online. You’re sitting across from him, talking and laughing, but part of you is on edge. You can’t relax. You haven’t been able to relax since you got into the car to drive here. You normally don’t worry what anyone thinks...

It’s All His Fault

It’s All His Fault

When everything goes wrong in your life, you know who to blame. It’s him.  ? If he had been more supportive when you came home and told him about the problem you were having at work, you wouldn’t have been so upset. You’d probably be having a nice evening right now....

Attraction that Leads to Trouble…

Attraction that Leads to Trouble…

Think of the last guy you were attracted to. Someone you REALLY liked. Did being with this guy make you feel: Like you’d be happy forever if only he’d commit to you? But first you’ve got to show him how great you are and how great his life would be with you?Like you’d...

3 Surprising Hacks to Ace a First Impression

3 Surprising Hacks to Ace a First Impression

It’s nerve-wracking enough to message someone online. But then to meet them in person? Terrifying! You can always put your best foot forward online. You can think about what you want to say before you type it. You can post that one photo (out of the dozens you took)...

Dressing to Attract Men

Dressing to Attract Men

Is it better to be conventionally attractive… Or is it better to look interesting? I’ll tell you what I’ve noticed about the effect this has for women, but first, let me tell you about guys who have tested this idea. “Peacocking” is rooted in Mother Nature’s design...

4 Steps to Defuse His Emotional Triggers

4 Steps to Defuse His Emotional Triggers

It was just a comment. All Amanda did was ask Ethan to pitch in to get chores done. Okay, maybe she mentioned the fact that all he was doing was sitting on the sofa staring at his phone. But it was a light-hearted joke. She wasn’t being mean about it. Ethan blew up....

2 Dating Strategies That Get You What You Want

2 Dating Strategies That Get You What You Want

Which dating strategy appeals most to you? Get lots of male attention by learning exactly what to do to make men notice you and want you.Find your future husband by leading with your most authentic, vulnerable self. Every woman needs a different strategy at different...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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