Overcome Every Heartache
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
How to Know If You’re Jealous
The barbecue at his friend’s house was the last straw. Melissa had been hoping to spend some quality time with her new boyfriend Ryan. She’d had a busy week,...
Why Men Lie
Bethany pressed her lips tight to keep from crying. “I don’t understand why he lied to me, James. He could have just told me.” Everything she thought she knew...
Sometimes? He’s an Insensitive Jerk
Layla thought this had potential. He was funny, he was hot, he had great dance moves, and his big brown eyes and soulful smile warmed her from the inside. But...
When You’re Not the Key That Fits His Lock
Let’s talk about rejection. You find someone you really like, and it doesn’t work out. He doesn’t feel the same. Or, even worse, he does feel the same … for a...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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When You Can’t Respect the Man You Love, Try These 3 Tips
I’d been watching Amanda and Jason struggle for some time. They’d always seemed like such a strong couple. They started dating in college and moved together to Chicago to start their respective careers. Although they weren’t married, they’d been together longer than...
The Secret Message of Loneliness
Certain times of year are lonelier than others. Holidays. Valentine’s Day. Vacation time with no one to spend it with. Along with the loneliness comes a hot burst of shame. Shame that you’re even feeling this way. You shouldn’t be lonely. You’ve got your life and your...
How to Stop Your Past from Poisoning Your Future
Your exes. What comes to mind when you think of them? If you’re like most women, the first word that comes to mind is “heartbreak.” Pain. Mistakes. Scars. You have to carry that baggage for the rest of your life. Common wisdom says you should forgive. You can’t let go...
Why Convincing Your Ex Never Works… (and what does)
When you’ve shared a special connection with someone, it’s hard to let it go. Especially when you know there’s still a lot of potential if he would just open his heart again. You could build a beautiful life together. If that’s something you want, then it’s only...
How can I get him back?
This article is part of James Bauer's top four relationship question. We had a fight and sort of broke up. Now I want him back. What can I do? Try using reciprocity. There is a powerful urge in human nature to return a favor. Sales people all over the world have...
Top 4 Relationship Questions
I polled our readers for their biggest questions and now I am ready to present the answers. I have taken the top four most common question themes and offered some deeper insights that will be useful for everyone. Here are the top four questions I will be addressing in...
How to Get Over Your Ex Faster (and Move on to the Right Guy)
How to Get Over Your Ex Faster (and Move on to the Right Guy) Moving on after you break up with someone isn’t rocket science. Ask anyone, and they’ll tell you: it takes time. But this can be frustrating. Especially if you want to get back out there and find someone....
#1 Reason Why Men Pull Away
It's a painful experience to be deeply connected with a man, only to find him pulling away and losing interest. Have you ever been with a man who seemed to really like you, only to begin distancing himself and saying he really wasn’t ready for a commitment? Why...
If We’re Right for Each Other, Why Do We Fight?
If love disappears in a fight, does that mean you’re not right for each other? Even if you’re deeply in love with someone, when a fight breaks out it can feel like you’ve become mortal enemies. On top of the anger and frustration you feel, fear takes hold. Where did...
Why Men Lose Interest
It's a painful experience to be deeply connected with a man, only to find him pulling away and losing interest. Have you ever been with a man who seemed to really like you, only to begin distancing himself and saying he really wasn’t ready for a commitment? Why...
What To Do If Your Guy Seems Distracted or Stops Listening
Men get preoccupied. Don't confuse that with a loss of passion for the relationship he shares with you. Has this ever happened to you? You meet someone attractive and engaging. The spark of interest leads quickly to romantic attraction and mutual desire. There is a...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!