Overcome Every Heartache
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I Feel Alone Even When I’m With Him
It wasn’t supposed to be like this. You found a great guy. You get along well. You should be happy. But something feels different in your relationship. Even...
The Pain of Lost Love
If you work with love, you will hear stories of pain. The pain of having your partner steal your heart and later leave for good. The pain of beautiful...
Breakup Recovery
Breaking up rips out your heart. It hurts SO much. You can’t think of him without crying. Your friends try to support you, but it doesn’t help. The pain...
Still in A Bad Relationship?
I was talking with Heidi, one of the relationship coaches that works in our private, members-only forum, and she started telling me about a woman who was in a...
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More Heartache Articles
Why Loss Hurts So Much (Even If You Never Liked Him in the First Place)
Kelly didn’t even like Jonah. And yet here she was, glancing down at her phone every few minutes, listening to breakup songs. She met him on Tinder. He seemed nice enough. They went out a handful of times. Enough to make her think they were dating, or at least moving...
Feel like Giving Up on Love?
If you tell your girlfriends you’re giving up on love, they’ll rush to hug and reassure you. “Don’t do it!” they’ll tell you. “You’ll find someone. You just haven’t met the right one yet.” It’s nice that they’re so concerned about you. But you’re not sure if their...
Will He Come Back?
You remember, don’t you, all those times you felt so close to him that time stood still. There was no one else in the world. Just you and him. Love wrapping you in a cocoon of happiness. There was only one thing you needed for it to be perfect: The knowledge that this...
Are You Too Nice to Break Up with Him?
You’ve been dating for a while. He’s a good guy. A really good guy. He’s nice, your parents like him, he’s got a solid career, and he picks up after himself. What do you have to complain about? And yet… The thought of walking down the aisle with him fills your heart...
When You Can’t Respect the Man You Love, Try These 3 Tips
I’d been watching Amanda and Jason struggle for some time. They’d always seemed like such a strong couple. They started dating in college and moved together to Chicago to start their respective careers. Although they weren’t married, they’d been together longer than...
The Secret Message of Loneliness
Certain times of year are lonelier than others. Holidays. Valentine’s Day. Vacation time with no one to spend it with. Along with the loneliness comes a hot burst of shame. Shame that you’re even feeling this way. You shouldn’t be lonely. You’ve got your life and your...
How to Stop Your Past from Poisoning Your Future
Your exes. What comes to mind when you think of them? If you’re like most women, the first word that comes to mind is “heartbreak.” Pain. Mistakes. Scars. You have to carry that baggage for the rest of your life. Common wisdom says you should forgive. You can’t let go...
Why Convincing Your Ex Never Works… (and what does)
When you’ve shared a special connection with someone, it’s hard to let it go. Especially when you know there’s still a lot of potential if he would just open his heart again. You could build a beautiful life together. If that’s something you want, then it’s only...
How can I get him back?
This article is part of James Bauer's top four relationship question. We had a fight and sort of broke up. Now I want him back. What can I do? Try using reciprocity. There is a powerful urge in human nature to return a favor. Sales people all over the world have...
Top 4 Relationship Questions
I polled our readers for their biggest questions and now I am ready to present the answers. I have taken the top four most common question themes and offered some deeper insights that will be useful for everyone. Here are the top four questions I will be addressing in...
How to Get Over Your Ex Faster (and Move on to the Right Guy)
How to Get Over Your Ex Faster (and Move on to the Right Guy) Moving on after you break up with someone isn’t rocket science. Ask anyone, and they’ll tell you: it takes time. But this can be frustrating. Especially if you want to get back out there and find someone....
#1 Reason Why Men Pull Away
It's a painful experience to be deeply connected with a man, only to find him pulling away and losing interest. Have you ever been with a man who seemed to really like you, only to begin distancing himself and saying he really wasn’t ready for a commitment? Why...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
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