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Why Guys Break Up Instead of Working on the Relationship
This is a story you might have heard before. A man meets a woman… And he falls hard. He’s never met anyone like her before. They have so much fun together....
3 Signs He’s Not Over His Ex
“James!” Kelli threw her bag on the floor and flung herself into the chair. “I knew it! I found the evidence.” “What evidence?” I asked. “He still has...
Should I Go No Contact?
I’m sometimes asked whether I think the No Contact Rule works. For those of you unfamiliar with the term, the No Contact Rule refers to ceasing all contact...
I Feel Alone Even When I’m With Him
It wasn’t supposed to be like this. You found a great guy. You get along well. You should be happy. But something feels different in your relationship. Even...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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More Heartache Articles
Do You Get Angry at Your Boyfriend?
You are so angry at him, you can’t think straight. You don’t even want him around. If he says one more thing, you might just blow your top. So you take a breather and consider what you’re going to do next. Are you going to give him what he so richly deserves? Are you...
Should you stick with a difficult relationship?
Should you stick with a difficult relationship? It’s a question that divides a lot of people. (Ask it on a first date, and you’ll learn a lot about him.) Some believe relationships should be easy. If you’re struggling, it’s because there’s something wrong. You’re not...
What Your Relationship Mistakes Say about You
Do you worry much? One of the things I see a lot in my coaching practice is worry about relationship decisions and relationship mistakes from the past. Many of the women I talk to worry they’ve made the wrong choices. Stayed in the wrong relationship too long. Let go...
Why Loss Hurts So Much (Even If You Never Liked Him in the First Place)
Kelly didn’t even like Jonah. And yet here she was, glancing down at her phone every few minutes, listening to breakup songs. She met him on Tinder. He seemed nice enough. They went out a handful of times. Enough to make her think they were dating, or at least moving...
Feel like Giving Up on Love?
If you tell your girlfriends you’re giving up on love, they’ll rush to hug and reassure you. “Don’t do it!” they’ll tell you. “You’ll find someone. You just haven’t met the right one yet.” It’s nice that they’re so concerned about you. But you’re not sure if their...
Will He Come Back?
You remember, don’t you, all those times you felt so close to him that time stood still. There was no one else in the world. Just you and him. Love wrapping you in a cocoon of happiness. There was only one thing you needed for it to be perfect: The knowledge that this...
Are You Too Nice to Break Up with Him?
You’ve been dating for a while. He’s a good guy. A really good guy. He’s nice, your parents like him, he’s got a solid career, and he picks up after himself. What do you have to complain about? And yet… The thought of walking down the aisle with him fills your heart...
When You Can’t Respect the Man You Love, Try These 3 Tips
I’d been watching Amanda and Jason struggle for some time. They’d always seemed like such a strong couple. They started dating in college and moved together to Chicago to start their respective careers. Although they weren’t married, they’d been together longer than...
The Secret Message of Loneliness
Certain times of year are lonelier than others. Holidays. Valentine’s Day. Vacation time with no one to spend it with. Along with the loneliness comes a hot burst of shame. Shame that you’re even feeling this way. You shouldn’t be lonely. You’ve got your life and your...
How to Stop Your Past from Poisoning Your Future
Your exes. What comes to mind when you think of them? If you’re like most women, the first word that comes to mind is “heartbreak.” Pain. Mistakes. Scars. You have to carry that baggage for the rest of your life. Common wisdom says you should forgive. You can’t let go...
Why Convincing Your Ex Never Works… (and what does)
When you’ve shared a special connection with someone, it’s hard to let it go. Especially when you know there’s still a lot of potential if he would just open his heart again. You could build a beautiful life together. If that’s something you want, then it’s only...
How can I get him back?
This article is part of James Bauer's top four relationship question. We had a fight and sort of broke up. Now I want him back. What can I do? Try using reciprocity. There is a powerful urge in human nature to return a favor. Sales people all over the world have...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!