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When to Say I Love You
You’ve been dating a guy for a few months when he shows up at your door with a small silver bag. After kissing you hello, he hands it to you and closely...
Can Asking Questions Make Him Fall in Love?
Ever heard of the 36 questions that make people fall in love? These questions took the internet by storm in 2015, but most people don’t know much about them....
He Says He Doesn’t Want a Relationship
You love him. You’d do anything for him. He knows that. So why is he telling you that he doesn’t want a relationship? It’s not the right time, he’s not in the...
Do Guys Move Too Fast? Slow It Down
Zoey opened up her online dating app to see the message: “Send pics.” She was mystified. What ever happened to hello? She took a look at the man who was...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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3 Commandments of Online Dating
Online dating is getting better. Fifteen years ago, less than half of online daters ever made it out on an actual date. There were a lot of time-wasters. That’s changed. These days, 2 in 3 online daters have made it off the computer and onto a real-world date. And 1...
3 Reasons Guys Stop Trying Once They Have You
When you met your guy, it was amazing. He treated you like a queen. He took you out. He listened. He wanted to learn everything you liked so he could give it to you. You felt seen, treasured, appreciated…. Everything you’d ever hoped for. So why does he do NONE of...
The Case of the Disappearing Men
I’ve heard this story so many times. A guy really likes a girl, so he tries to come up with reasons to talk to her. He starts showing up in the same places she frequents. He strikes up little conversations with her. He builds up the courage to ask her out. Then, out...
5 Red Flags that Drive Great Men Away
You like him. But you don’t know what he thinks of you. You lie awake at night wondering: Does he like me? Does he find me attractive? Does he see me as relationship material? It’s so frustrating not to know! If you could get inside a man’s mind and read his thoughts,...
When Things Get “Emotionally Weird”
Meghan was enjoying her new companion. They had great conversations. He was so interesting. They shared a lot of the same opinions about the world. And he was so generous and thoughtful. He picked up pretty rocks for her, because he knew she collected them. He was...
No Second Date. Could This Be Why?
This guy seems okay. You’re not sure about him, but he’s nice enough. The conversation was good. If he asked you, you’d probably see him again. But after you go home from your date, you check your phone… And nothing. Tomorrow … still nothing. He doesn’t contact you...
Are Your New Connections Fizzling Out Because of This?
It’s so fun to text back and forth with someone new. You feel like you’re really getting to know each other. It’s SO much easier to flirt. You can type things you’d never say in person. You can ask your friends for ideas. You can even text him in your pajamas, no...
He Doesn’t Value You? The ONLY Way He’ll Change
Imagine you’re playing a board game with this really cute, amazing guy. You can tell he really likes you, too. Eventually, you notice that every time you play this game with him, you end up winning. So you start paying closer attention to how he’s playing… And, sure...
When His Response to Plans Is, “Gotta wait and see.”
You’re excited about your upcoming date with a guy you met online. You really enjoyed chatting with him. He seems to have his life together—great job, cool hobbies, even impeccable grammar! You agreed to do something the weekend after next. He said he’d nail down...
Find Out If You’re Compatible with Him
Dan Ariely doesn’t like online dating. The term is all wrong, he says. There’s no dating happening online. Instead, he jokes, they should call it “online searching and blurb writing.”[1] Not that Dan has searched for love online himself. He’s happily married with two...
Are Coffee Dates Boring?
Amelia wasn’t her usual positive self. Most of the time, when we talked about her dating life, she was optimistic that the time she was spending on dating apps would pay off. She’d been working on moving conversations offline. It was a big leap, but she’d wasted too...
Relationship Self-Defense
Relationships are places where you can let down your guard and show your true self. Relationships are places where you can open your heart and let love in. But relationships are also places where you can be hurt... Where you can experience betrayal. That’s why you...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
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I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
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