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9 Ways to “Speak Dating”
These days, dating has its own language. You’ve probably already heard words like breadcrumbing, ghosting, and love bombing before… But you may not have heard...
4 Ways to Make Him Attached to You
Perhaps you’ve been with a guy like this. He wants to spend time with you—sometimes. He says how much he loves you—sometimes. He makes future plans with...
Tips to Avoid Scammers When Dating Online
It should be the easiest way to meet someone: Just sign up for a dating app! But so many women have gotten burned online. The gentlemen they were hoping to...
Always Nervous with Guys? Try This
What do these situations have in common? You’re talking with an amazing guy and trying not to show how much you like him. You’re on a first date and terrified...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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More Dating Articles
Text Message Connections Fizzling Out Early?
It’s so fun to text back and forth with someone new. You feel like you’re really getting to know each other. It’s SO much easier to flirt. You can type things you’d never say in person. You can ask your friends for ideas. You can even text him in your pajamas, no...
How To Love More Deeply
When you meet someone really cool… And you seem to have a connection, and he seems to like you back… It’s the best feeling in the world. You can’t stop smiling. You feel so happy. Your world, ordinarily so predictable, sparkles with hope and possibility. What if this...
A Subtle Persuasion Technique
You’ve arranged to meet several men you connected with online. The first guy talks about his life in a way that’s extremely impressive. He’s confident, and you like that. He talks about places he could take you. He talks about the interests you have in common. He...
He Only Wants Something Casual
This is not how it was supposed to turn out. You have spent so much time searching for a man who makes you feel like this. You thought you might never find him. And here he shows up in your life, bringing joy and laughter and fun and desire… Making you feel wanted…...
He Doesn’t Pay Attention to Me
A few years back, I was at a picnic when an old friend of mine came and sat down next to me. “James!” she said, and gave me a huge hug. Annabeth had been a good friend of mine for a long time. I asked her how she was, and she caught me up on her life. Then she nudged...
He Won’t Work on the Relationship
He won’t work on the relationship. He won’t do ANYTHING. He says things are fine as they are. He says there’s nothing to talk about. And what you hear is: “I don’t care how you feel.” “I can’t be bothered to lift a finger.” “You’re not worth of my effort.” You’re...
Has Tinder Killed Relationships?
More and more often, I’ve been hearing from women that relationships are dead. Men don’t want to get to know you anymore. They just want to jump into bed. Even though these women state clearly in their profiles that they want a relationship, the men they meet have...
3 Ways to Be Braver in Love
Researchers put out a pitcher of lemonade and poured a glass for some boys and girls. The boys tasted the lemonade and made a face. “Gross!” said one. “It tastes terrible,” said the other. The girls tasted the lemonade. “It tastes good,” one said politely. Another...
5 Ways to Say No to Him
You finally meet someone you like… And he pressures you to do something you don’t want to do. You’re convinced he’ll lose interest in you if you don’t do it. It’s been so hard to find someone you actually like, who returns your interest... That you go ahead with what...
The Only Male Mind Hack You’ll Ever Need
Your guy has been acting strangely lately. He seems distracted. He’s not as affectionate. He doesn’t seem to want to spend as much time together. You worry that his feelings for you are cooling. If that’s the case, you need to act fast to save your relationship. How...
3 Secrets You Must Know about Men
Look, I get it. As a man who helps women achieve happier romantic outcomes with guys, I know it sometimes seems like men are from another planet. You don’t know why guys do the things they do. They don’t make sense. But men were born on the same planet as everyone...
Classic Dating Advice That REALLY Works
You met this guy, and you REALLY like him. You can’t help telling your friends all about him… Dreaming about him while you’re supposed to be focusing at work… Wondering when he’s going to call. The only reason you’ve gone back on the online dating app is to see if...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
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