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Are Coffee Dates Boring?

Are Coffee Dates Boring?

Amelia wasn’t her usual positive self. Most of the time, when we talked about her dating life, she was optimistic that the time she was spending on dating...

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Relationship Self-Defense

Relationship Self-Defense

Relationships are places where you can let down your guard and show your true self. Relationships are places where you can open your heart and let love in....

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Stop Old Arguments from Wrecking Your Relationship Rhythm

Stop Old Arguments from Wrecking Your Relationship Rhythm

Try this quick experiment. I’ll explain why in a bit. Think about the last time your boyfriend did something really irritating. For just a moment, 30 seconds tops, remember every detail you can. Got a specific annoyance in mind? Good. Okay, the next part is the...

A Simple Way to Spot Mr. Right

A Simple Way to Spot Mr. Right

So many women regret the time they wasted in unhealthy relationships. They can’t believe who they fell for. They can’t believe how long they stuck with dead-end relationships. But I have one friend who never expresses those kinds of regrets. Jennifer has always been...

How to Be the Drama-Free Girlfriend Guys Love

How to Be the Drama-Free Girlfriend Guys Love

Kathy’s life was like something out of a reality TV program. Her friends loved her. Life was never boring with Kathy around. Drama followed her wherever she went. But there was one area of her life Kathy wished was less dramatic: Her relationships. She’d never had a...

The Value in Harboring a Secret Obsession

The Value in Harboring a Secret Obsession

You’re driving a bit over the speed limit. Nothing out of the ordinary. Nothing you’d ever think about. But this time a cop pulls you over. He gives you a speeding ticket. It’s surprising. Frustrating. Scary. And for the whole next week, you can’t stop thinking about...

Go One Step Deeper than Good Communication

Go One Step Deeper than Good Communication

If you spend even a little time reading up on what makes a relationship work, you’ll come across a lot of advice on improving communication. Happy couples have good communication, right? Well, yes. But are they happy because they have good communication, or do they...

How to Avoid Online Relationship Drama

How to Avoid Online Relationship Drama

Have you had the uncomfortable experience of watching a social media train wreck? I’ve seen more than a few, myself. In fact, just recently I came across an entire article about one.[i] The girl was cheated on, so she told everyone what a two-timing jerk her guy was –...

Does Your Relationship Get Enough Playtime

Does Your Relationship Get Enough Playtime

Do you want a relationship that’s off-the-charts satisfying? Then you need to make sure you and your guy get enough playtime. Take a moment to think about your average day. Imagine it from the beginning to the end, like a video playing on fast-forward in your mind....

Use Moments of Awkward Silence for a Surprising Advantage with Men

Use Moments of Awkward Silence for a Surprising Advantage with Men

What feels like an awkward silence to you might not feel that way to a guy. Let me show you why. Let’s look at a sample conversation where two people are trying to make a connection. MAN: I don’t think I’ve ever seen a neon pink-orange drink before. WOMAN: I know,...

How “Instant Jealousy” Works

How “Instant Jealousy” Works

Have you ever experienced this? You’re with your guy in a public place. A restaurant or the mall. A woman walks by. Before you even glance at his reaction, you’re seething. She’s gorgeous. A part of you is immediately jealous. Then you see your guy’s face. His eyes...

How to Tell if He’s Just Fishing

How to Tell if He’s Just Fishing

It seemed so promising. You were thrilled when this guy you met online asked for your mobile number. Although you’re careful about giving out your number (after some bad experiences with unwanted pictures), this guy seemed genuine. His texts were funny, interesting,...

5 Questions that Create Connection

5 Questions that Create Connection

How much do you really know about the guy sitting across the table from you? Maybe this is your first date, and all you really know is that you like his smile and the way his dark hair curls above his neck. Or maybe this is your zillionth dinner date, although “date”...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

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