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A Scientifically-Proven Secret to Lasting Love
Cecilia was describing her new boyfriend to me. “It’s fun, it’s exciting, but when I’ve needed him, he isn’t there. It feels like I can’t share everything...
When Generosity Backfires
“Give more than you get.” It’s such a beautiful philosophy. It inspires generosity, selflessness, and a sense of abundance. But there’s one place where giving...
How to Spot Commitment-Minded Guys
When Dora met her college boyfriend, they were instantly inseparable. She knew from the beginning that they’d be together forever. They talked about the...
Bring Back the Spark in Your Relationship
When Nia met Jamal, it was easily the best relationship she’d ever had. They had so much fun together. They had an incredible connection, and they could talk...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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More Commitment Articles
The Balance of Power in Your Relationship: Practicing Relationship Yoga
I was visiting with a friend recently. She’s checking out yoga for the first time. I asked her how she likes it, and her feedback was mostly positive. Except for one area. “I had no idea I was so bad at balance,” she said. “Seriously, do you know how many times I’ve...
Use Transformational Conversations to Deepen Your Relationship
Here’s something you may have noticed about guys: You can’t get a word in edgewise when you first start dating… And then you can’t get a word out of him for the next 20 years. Men get that they have to communicate to make a woman fall in love. But it’s almost as if...
How to Outsmart He-Said-She-Said Arguments
Did you know there’s a hidden danger in trusting your own memory? Most of us think of our memory like a personal video recorder. When you remember something, it's like sitting down in the theater of your own mind and pressing play. Except, that's not how memory works....
5 Relationship Myths That Make People Miserable
Have you ever fallen prey to a widely-held misconception? Here’s a completely harmless example: shaving makes hair thicker. This old wives’ tale has been around for a long time, but there’s no truth in it.[1] Shaving can make hair look thicker. But shaving (or waxing)...
How to Spot Your Future Husband Faster
What are the chances your future husband is trying to meet you online? One study suggests that it could be as high as 33%.[1] (Other estimates are more conservative at 5% to 25%, so keep your eyes open in the real world, too. If he’s not online, he’s likely to be...
When He Doesn’t Want All the Love You Have to Give
There’s nothing worse than knowing you have a big heart… A heart that any man would be privileged to cherish… And yet feeling that men don’t want your love. If you’ve ever felt like that, let me share with you a story I sometimes tell my clients. You’re standing in a...
The SAP Method for Dealing with Emotional Triggers
Every time Bryan and Jill go to her parents’ house, they have a huge argument. One that goes nuclear. And Bryan thinks he knows why. “Jill gets weird around her family,” he says. “It’s like she’s a different person. She picks on every little thing I say. Normally I’m...
How to Save Your Relationship from His Children
Becky thought she found the perfect guy. There was only one problem: His daughter hated her. Becky told me she could understand—really, she could. From his daughter’s perspective, Becky was stealing away her dad. But that wasn’t Becky’s intention at all. She respected...
Tap Into Authenticity for Romantic Bliss
Have you ever been happy and miserable at the same time? I was talking to a client the other day. From outward appearances, she’s got it made. She has an amazing job, she’s in good shape, and the guy she’s dating is a real catch. She looks happy practically all the...
The Negativity Bias That Brings Down Relationships
He says you look beautiful tonight… But all you can remember is the last time you wore this outfit and the rude comment he made. He says he’s never loved you more than he does right now… But all you can remember is that time you argued and he said he regretted ever...
How to get him to commit?
This article is part of James Bauer's top four relationship question. What do you do when a guy you really like has other love interests and is kind of on the fence about a committed relationship with you as a result? This issue came up a lot from those of you who...
How To Get Out of the Friend Zone
This article is part of James Bauer's top four relationship question. The dreaded "friend zone" can be a frustrating trap. No one wants to get caught in it. Allow me to offer a few tips on breaking free of the friend zone to become the object of his desire. Before I...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!