The Act of Lovemaking

Let’s talk about how to create love out of thin air. I chose this title (The Act of Lovemaking) to remind you of something important. Love is something we make. It’s not something we find. It’s completely understandable that you want someone who will cherish you...

Develop the “Knack” for Melting a Man’s Heart

“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” ― Maya Angelou They say you never forget how to ride a bike. It’s a different kind of memory than...

Can you love two people at the same time?

Johnny Depp is an amazing actor.  I really enjoyed his work in Pirates of the Caribbean.  However, I’m not sure I would trust his judgment on dating and relationships.  I heard this Johnny Depp quote secondhand.  What do you think about it? “If you...

What do guys mean by “high-maintenance?”

What does it mean when a man claims a woman was “high-maintenance?” In the private conversations men have, what do they say to justify the high-maintenance label? First of all, I’m not a fan of labels, particularly negative ones. But this particular...

“Say What You Feel.” Why it works. When to use it.

What do you do when a man acts in ways that hurt your feelings? What do you do if his actions leave you feeling neglected or lonely, even when you are in a relationship? How do you communicate angry feelings constructively? Many of the questions I receive from women...