Can you love two people at the same time?

Johnny Depp is an amazing actor.  I really enjoyed his work in Pirates of the Caribbean.  However, I’m not sure I would trust his judgment on dating and relationships.  I heard this Johnny Depp quote secondhand.  What do you think about it? “If you...

What do guys mean by “high-maintenance?”

What does it mean when a man claims a woman was “high-maintenance?” In the private conversations men have, what do they say to justify the high-maintenance label? First of all, I’m not a fan of labels, particularly negative ones. But this particular...

“Say What You Feel.” Why it works. When to use it.

What do you do when a man acts in ways that hurt your feelings? What do you do if his actions leave you feeling neglected or lonely, even when you are in a relationship? How do you communicate angry feelings constructively? Many of the questions I receive from women...

Tough Relationship Decision? Use These 4 Steps to Resolve It

Sometimes even the smallest decisions can fill us with doubt. When it’s a big relationship decision we feel anxious, insecure, and sometimes miserable. This article is designed to reduce that emotional strain. I will propose four simple steps to reduce the...

Should You Act Cheerful When You Don’t Feel Cheerful?

As a dating and relationship coach I put a lot of emphasis on using positive energy and a cheerful mood to attract the kind of men who tend to make good life-long partners.  Several people have asked me if they should put on a cheerful mask even when they are not...