One Surefire Way to Ruin Your Relationship

Let’s consider a crazy idea. Suppose you were on a mission to wreck your current relationship. How would you do it? Sure, there are thousands of ways to slay intimacy, but is there one that trumps all the rest? You bet. And it doesn’t just work. It works really well....

Draw Him Closer by Feeding Him This

The male ego is a strange beast. On one hand, men are proud creatures. They like to feel independent, strong and respected. But they can also be big babies. Sometimes really big babies. Dealing with your guy’s ego is kind of like feeding a lion. If you don’t give it...

The Defining Romantic Moment

You may be waiting for a moment that’s never going to come. Remember the big finale in How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days? Kate Hudson thinks the entire romance has been a lie. Heartbroken, she’s on her way out of town. And then McConaughey realizes he loves her. He goes...

A Sneaky Way to Connect with Your Man

Be for what you want. Not against what you don’t want. I think Mother Teresa was brilliant when she responded to a question by saying “I’m not against war. I’m for peace.” Whatever you are against becomes a bigger part of your life. If...

The Recipe for an Amazing Intimate Connection

Which is more dangerous? Sharing too much too soon? Or not sharing enough? Either can kill a developing relationship. The trick is finding balance. I’ve known people at both extremes. I think of one friend in particular. We knew each other for nearly a year before I...