The Four Tendencies in Relationships

Have you ever dated someone who never got off the couch? You knew he had amazing potential, but he never did anything with it. Trying to motivate him was a waste of time. Or maybe you’ve dated the opposite: Someone whose time was scheduled down to the minute. He never...

The Unsexy Art of Relationship Maintenance

You’ve read those relationship articles, right? The ones featured in magazines in checkout lines? They’re always about passion or keeping the spark alive or making your relationship magical. Would you like to know the truth about those articles? Sometimes they have...

The Difference between Commitment and Attachment

Belle was committed. She was going to stick with this relationship no matter what. She was never going to give up. She wasn’t that sort of person. She despised people who got married then ended up divorcing six months later. “No one knows how to commit anymore!” she...

How to Avoid the Easiest Relationship Mistake

Some breakups are worse than others. When romance goes south over something big, at least it makes sense. But when things tank without obvious explanation, the lack of resolution is particularly upsetting. There’s one really common relationship mistake that almost...

Why He Loves It When You Frustrate Him

Picture this. You’ve got two dates lined up this week. Both are with equally handsome, accomplished, interesting men. Bachelor #1 is the perfect gentleman. Your two hours together fly by. He asks for your number and promises to call. Bachelor #2 is inconsistent. He...

How Cute Puppies Can Improve Your Relationship

How do you handle difficult patches in your relationships? How do you reclaim the magic? The answer can make or break a relationship. Some couples can go through a rough period and come out the other side closer. Some just . . . don’t make. Would you like to know what...