Tempt Him With Happiness

Your happiness is a form of psychological wealth!  It’s the kind of wealth that has unlimited value.  You can’t buy happiness directly.  You can buy material things that contribute to your happiness, but behind each of those purchases...

“Emotional Attraction” vs. “Physical Attraction”

What is the difference between “emotional attraction” and “physical attraction?” While there are varying opinions on this matter, I’ll share the general consensus from men I have asked to put their feelings into words. Physical attraction...

Going to Extremes to Get Together

I was driving out of my neighborhood this morning when I saw my neighbor’s four-year-old son playing outside. My neighbors are Emily and Mark, and their four-year-old son, Ethan. Emily is an American, though she speaks with a mixed accent after having spent most...

This is Embarrassing

As a dating consultant, I often get feedback from my clients about what seemed to help and what didn’t.  Today I’m sharing one piece of advice that never fails to result in enthusiastic feedback from my clients.  It’s so simple, it’s...

Be Ready for This Question BEFORE He Asks You

Hey, it’s James with a tip for the early phase of a dating relationship. “So, what do you do for fun?” It’s a question that usually comes a little while after, “What do you do for a living?” and, “Where are you from?”...

From Mysterious to Genuine

Hey, it’s James with a message for those of you who like to use a little mystery to add an extra spark at the start of a relationship. Imagine this, Janice is on her second date with Ted. Janice is particularly good with her eyes. She can communicate more with...