How to Thrill the Man You Love Without Being a Doormat

Jamie came into my office in a huff. She pulled off her beanie and plunked down in the chair. Her tawny hair frizzed in all directions. “Something happen?” I asked. “No.” She waved my concern aside. “It’s just … well, something a friend of mine said.” She twisted the...

7 Things You Should Know Before the First Date

Have you ever been on a blind date? They’re nerve-racking. Even if you trust the person setting you up, it feels like such a gamble. What if the guy is a jerk? Or an idiot? Or just a really, really bad fit? Blind date horror stories range from the uncomfortable to the...

Why He Loves It When You’re Selfish

Relationships thrive on selflessness. They require sacrifice, compromise, and putting each other first. We know this deep in our bones, and yet… Have you ever noticed lopsided relationships, where it seems like one person is doing all the giving and the other person...

Give off the Right Vibe When Meeting Guys

Have you ever tried to make an impression by pretending to be something you’re not? That’s not really a fair question, is it? I mean, everyone has done that at some point. Guy or girl, everyone one of us has tried to get the attention of someone we’re attracted to by...

Improve Your Self-Image to Boost Your Love Life

I found a cool method to supercharge your dating life and your self-image at the same time. Allow me to briefly explain what I’ve discovered. Your self-image and romantic life are closely linked. Consider the dating app called Tinder. Well, actually, let’s consider a...

The Romantic Advantage of Seeing the World in Shades of Gray

Want to know whether this guy has what it takes to last in the long run? Ask him about his parents. Or his exes. Or his boss. People who are emotionally charged for him. Then sit back and listen. If he paints a world in which people are either good or bad, saints or...