James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week
The Best Way to Let Him Know You Love Him
Many women fear being too needy or clingy. You worry about pushing away a great guy.
You can avoid this by learning how to speak your man’s love language. Finding out which of the five buttons make him respond.
Most guys don’t have a clue what their love language is. In fact, 90% would probably say their love language is sex.
This may require some detective work on your part.
Practice each of the love languages on him to see which one gets the best response:
- Words of Affirmation
- Quality Time
- Acts of Service
- Physical Touch
If you give him a compliment that should make him feel great, but he seems to brush it off or even ignore it, words of affirmation may not be his preference. But if you suggest an afternoon wandering the city together and suddenly he’s excited and giddy, it may be that quality time is the language that speaks to his heart.
Learning what makes him tick gives you insight into how to let him know you love him…even before you tell him with words.