Does music make your guy feel nostalgic? Try this…

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “What’s your dream lineup of “blast from the past” bands?” This gives you both a chance to share in some nostalgia. It could also segue into plans to share a favorites playlist in...

Bring out his playful side with some fun conversation.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Really important question: would you rather have [X-ray vision] or [wings]?” Though it may feel a bit juvenile, a light-hearted game of imagination and fantasy is an easy, low-pressure way to get a guy to relax with you. It...

Give him a glimpse into your interests with this tip.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I can’t stop reading [book]. What have you been reading lately?” He’ll appreciate your willingness to have an intelligent conversation, and he’ll get a window into your...

The way to a man’s heart is through …

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Hey! I feel like making _____ tonight. Got any family recipes I could borrow?” This invites him to talk about his family. It also reminds him that you’re an excellent cook… or at least that you try. It might open the...

Like his taste in clothes? Try this…

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week Try on a few different outfits in a dressing room. Send him pictures. “Which ___?” Top, dress, pants, scarf…. Not only are you asking his opinion, there’s a real assumption of intimacy here in letting him help you choose...

Spark feelings of intimacy in your relationship with this tip

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week Send him a picture of your room. “I want to rearrange. Where is the perfect spot for this ____?” Self-disclosure leads to feelings of intimacy in relationships. The trick here is that it doesn’t always have to be in the form...