This flirty tip invites him to open up.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Where would you go for ‘just desert’?” You’re asking for advice, learning more about him, and inviting him to help you be a bit “naughty,” albeit with...

Stay connected with your man and have fun with this tip.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I just had a fun idea for the next time we’re feeling bored: Do you want to write a text story together?” If he bites, explain that one person starts and you trade off writing the next part. It can be short or long. Silly...

This tip can help you discover shared interests with your man.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I need new ______ to get into. Any recommendations?” Examples: New music. New books. A new show.   It’s nice because it’s unassuming. He can answer quickly, but it could also lead to a long conversation about shared or...

Here’s a fun way to ask about his day.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Challenge time: Tell me how your day was, but you can ONLY answer with an emoji or meme.” A fun twist on checking in about his day! It can help your guy open up if he sometimes has trouble finding the right...

Looking for a light-hearted way to set up a date?

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week This one is designed as a light-hearted set-up, so you have to feel comfortable enough with the man to send it: “Coffee or tea?” Then, when he responds with his answer, text: “Okay, I guess we’re going to _________ tonight....