“Once guys get to know me, they always leave.” “I can’t let down my guard. I’ll say the wrong thing and push him away.” “It’s risky to let a guy into my life. What if he sees the real me and runs?” I wish I had a dime for every time a woman has told me she can’t...
You can’t eat. You can’t smile without forcing it. You can’t stop thinking about him. You can’t stop thinking about what happened. You feel terrible, you look terrible, and all you want is for him to be suffering as much as you are. In the midst of your misery, you...
Bernadette was frustrated. “I did everything right, James,” she said. “I made sure to soften my approach, I talked about my feelings, I avoided blaming him … but I still think I might have wrecked everything.” Bernadette had been wanting to talk to her boyfriend...
Long-term relationships are comfortable. You’re used to each other. You’ve got your routine. You no longer wake up every single morning thinking, “I’m so lucky!” It’s a wonderful feeling when you can finally relax into a relationship. You can be real with one another....
It’s one of the worst parts about dating: The effort you put into guys who turn out to be time-wasters. You spend hours texting or chatting online, you talk on the phone, and you build up high hopes… Only to go out with him and realize he’s nothing like you thought he...
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