Novelty Makes Love Last

Every relationship starts to fade after a while. No, it’s not you. It’s not him, either. You can blame it on the way our brains are wired to prefer whatever feels new. In the early days of a relationship, the brain’s reward system works overtime. It floods a lover’s...

This flirty tip invites him to open up.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Where would you go for ‘just desert’?” You’re asking for advice, learning more about him, and inviting him to help you be a bit “naughty,” albeit with...

Stay connected with your man and have fun with this tip.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I just had a fun idea for the next time we’re feeling bored: Do you want to write a text story together?” If he bites, explain that one person starts and you trade off writing the next part. It can be short or long. Silly...

This tip can help you discover shared interests with your man.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I need new ______ to get into. Any recommendations?” Examples: New music. New books. A new show.   It’s nice because it’s unassuming. He can answer quickly, but it could also lead to a long conversation about shared or...