The Curious Secret to Happily-Ever-After

That phrase happily-ever-after has a lot of explaining to do. It sets us up to believe that once we meet the perfect person, our lives will become instantly happier… And we’ll stay happy forever. But that doesn’t match our experience. Yes, meeting an amazing person...

3 Dates that Spark Attraction

Connie was so excited. She was driving to meet a guy she’d been chatting with all week. The traffic was horrible. It was hot and muggy. But Connie didn’t mind. She’d had a great day at work, and she was looking forward to relaxing and having a drink with someone she...

Is Something Bothering you?

He’s great. He’s better than 90% of the guys out there. You can think of a lot of things you like about him. He’s kind. He’s thoughtful. He’s funny. But… He’s not perfect. There’s this thing about him that annoys you. Maybe it’s that gross sound he makes when eating…...

What Men Want More than Love

Which would you prefer: To be loved or to be respected? The answer is obvious. Of course it’s better to be loved. You can have all the degrees and achievements and fame in the world, but without love it feels a bit hollow. Do you think most men would agree? If your...

How to Wrap Up a First Date Gracefully

You think it went well. You had a nice chat. There was a little flirting going on. He seemed comfortable with you. Then it was time to go. You could tell he was ready. The quiet stretches grew longer. He kept shifting in his seat. You kept waiting for him to say, “It...