Every relationship starts to fade after a while. No, it’s not you. It’s not him, either. You can blame it on the way our brains are wired to prefer whatever feels new. In the early days of a relationship, the brain’s reward system works overtime. It floods a lover’s...
James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Where would you go for ‘just desert’?” You’re asking for advice, learning more about him, and inviting him to help you be a bit “naughty,” albeit with...
James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I just had a fun idea for the next time we’re feeling bored: Do you want to write a text story together?” If he bites, explain that one person starts and you trade off writing the next part. It can be short or long. Silly...
James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Just heard a song that’s linked to my high school memories. Does that ever happen to you?” This message is easy for him to respond to quickly, and it may open a discussion about memories and emotions associated with certain...
James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I need new ______ to get into. Any recommendations?” Examples: New music. New books. A new show. It’s nice because it’s unassuming. He can answer quickly, but it could also lead to a long conversation about shared or...
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