Show him you value his opinion.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I have friends visiting for the weekend and I’m stumped on where to take them. Any ideas?” Guys love it when you show that you value their opinions and trust them enough to ask for their help. Plus, you may get to learn...

Let him know he’s on your mind…

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week Let him know he’s on your mind: “I was ________ today and I swear I saw ________ for a second.” Examples: “I was going for a run today and I swear I saw your dog for a second.” “I was driving to work today, and for a second,...

Show him that you pay attention to his interests…

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week Pick one of his interests and ask about it. Make it timely. Examples: “ESPN just did a story on your team. Think they’re going to have a good year?” “I just read about this new brewery opening up. Heard anything about it?”...

Reach out via text about his recent social media post…

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week If you’re already friends on social media and he posts something interesting, comment on it via text instead of on social media. Examples: “Hey, saw the new pic you posted! Where did you learn to take pictures like that?”...

Show him you’re thinking of him with this tip.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Did you see this?” Accompany the message with a video, link to information, or meme related to his interests. Bonus points if it’s an activity you can do together. It’ll show him you’re thinking about him and pay attention...