3 Commandments of Online Dating

Online dating is getting better. Fifteen years ago, less than half of online daters ever made it out on an actual date. There were a lot of time-wasters. That’s changed. These days, 2 in 3 online daters have made it off the computer and onto a real-world date. And 1...

Why Don’t Guys Notice Me?

Not to boast, but you’re a pretty awesome person. You look after yourself. You’re kind. You’re positive. You make other people feel good. So why are you still single? Why don’t guys even notice you? The Changing World of Dating My older clients tell me dating was...

5 Surprising Things Men Find Beautiful in Women

Magazines are full of pictures of beautiful women. Women with perfect bodies. Women with glossy hair. Women who look amazing, relaxed, and radiant. You look at those pictures in magazines, then you look in the mirror. And you wonder: What do men see when they look at...

3 Tips to Make Your Profile Pic Catch His Eye

You know your photo matters more than it should. Even on online dating platforms like eHarmony, which prioritize compatibility over looks, men spend more time looking at photos than they do reading your profile. OkCupid found that text contributes to less than 10% of...

Find Out If You’re Compatible with Him

Dan Ariely doesn’t like online dating. The term is all wrong, he says. There’s no dating happening online. Instead, he jokes, they should call it “online searching and blurb writing.”[1] Not that Dan has searched for love online himself. He’s happily married with two...