A Subtle Persuasion Technique

You’ve arranged to meet several men you connected with online. The first guy talks about his life in a way that’s extremely impressive. He’s confident, and you like that. He talks about places he could take you. He talks about the interests you have in common. He...

Has Tinder Killed Relationships?

More and more often, I’ve been hearing from women that relationships are dead. Men don’t want to get to know you anymore. They just want to jump into bed. Even though these women state clearly in their profiles that they want a relationship, the men they meet have...

3 Commandments of Online Dating

Online dating is getting better. Fifteen years ago, less than half of online daters ever made it out on an actual date. There were a lot of time-wasters. That’s changed. These days, 2 in 3 online daters have made it off the computer and onto a real-world date. And 1...

Why Don’t Guys Notice Me?

Not to boast, but you’re a pretty awesome person. You look after yourself. You’re kind. You’re positive. You make other people feel good. So why are you still single? Why don’t guys even notice you? The Changing World of Dating My older clients tell me dating was...

5 Surprising Things Men Find Beautiful in Women

Magazines are full of pictures of beautiful women. Women with perfect bodies. Women with glossy hair. Women who look amazing, relaxed, and radiant. You look at those pictures in magazines, then you look in the mirror. And you wonder: What do men see when they look at...