How to Keep Worry from Capsizing a Date

Does self-doubt get in your way? Does it take some of the fun out of dating? For me, one of the hardest things to see is wonderful women who doubt themselves. They can’t see all the qualities they have that would make a man fall in love. They worry about how they come...

Never Date a Man without First Knowing Your BATNA

If you enjoy dating just for the sake of dating, and you have no other motive for dating beyond enjoying a few interactions with a guy, you can skip this article. But if a part of your reason for dating is because you’d actually like to develop a warm and...

“Emotional Attraction” vs. “Physical Attraction”

What is the difference between “emotional attraction” and “physical attraction?” While there are varying opinions on this matter, I’ll share the general consensus from men I have asked to put their feelings into words. Physical...

The Emperor Has No Clothes (And There Are No Dating Rules)

In case the story is not common where you live, the expression “The emperor has no clothes” is from Hans Christian Anderson’s fable The Emperor’s New Clothes, published in 1837. It was one of my favorite childhood stories (at least the Mickey...