How to Deal with His (Insane) Expectations

Think about the last time you experienced really bad service at a restaurant. Maybe it took forever to get a table. Or the food was cold when it arrived. Or your order was wrong. Whatever the case, THE THING that made the experience negative was an unmet expectation....

Don’t Take This Well-Meaning Advice

Sometimes, people who want to make you happy give you really bad advice. For example… It’s frustrating to watch someone you care about agonize over a guy who doesn’t even know she exists. Her unreciprocated love doesn’t just make her suffer; it makes everyone around...

Stop Getting Hurt by Untrustworthy Men

One of our biggest fears is giving our love to someone who betrays our trust. It’s probably already happened to you. It happens to most of us over the course of a lifetime. For some, the lesson is etched in memory. They never fully trust anyone again, not like they...

How to Keep Worry from Capsizing a Date

Does self-doubt get in your way? Does it take some of the fun out of dating? For me, one of the hardest things to see is wonderful women who doubt themselves. They can’t see all the qualities they have that would make a man fall in love. They worry about how they come...

Never Date a Man without First Knowing Your BATNA

If you enjoy dating just for the sake of dating, and you have no other motive for dating beyond enjoying a few interactions with a guy, you can skip this article. But if a part of your reason for dating is because you’d actually like to develop a warm and...