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2 Strategies That Can Save the Day When He Pulls Away
He’s pulling away. You can feel it. It’s not just that he’s not contacting you as often. It’s the way he communicates. Almost as if he’s irritated by you. As...
My Relationships Never Last
“Once guys get to know me, they always leave.” “I can’t let down my guard. I’ll say the wrong thing and push him away.” “It’s risky to let a guy into my life....
Scientifically-Proven Way to Bounce Back (Better Than Ever!) from Heartbreak
You can’t eat. You can’t smile without forcing it. You can’t stop thinking about him. You can’t stop thinking about what happened. You feel terrible, you look...
What a Cup of Coffee Can Tell You about Your Relationship Mistakes
Bernadette was frustrated. “I did everything right, James,” she said. “I made sure to soften my approach, I talked about my feelings, I avoided blaming him …...
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The Value of Individualized Feedback
Feedback is one of the most effective tools for improving ourselves. In his book, “Talent is Overrated,” Georff Colvin makes the case that people with superior skills and abilities usually developed those skills because of feedback over time, rather than innate...
How and When to Tell Him about Medical Issues
I am very grateful for all the kind, sweet, thoughtful, and responsible women who ask me this question: "I have this issue that I feel I need to be upfront with him about before our relationship goes too far. Should I tell him about it on the first date?" I...
Anticipation Machines for Human Relationships: What Does He Anticipate About You?
I recently heard a brain-science researcher discussing the nature of human memory. He was making the case that humans are "anticipation machines" and that memory is the foundation of our ability to anticipate what is coming next. He was talking about the difference...
Why You Should Build Your Network of Platonic Friendships
Regardless of whether you are over fifty, or about to reach your twenty-first birthday, the value of a solid network of female AND male friends is extremely high. Even if you already have a strong network of friends and acquaintances, I'm going to make the case today...
Penetrating Laughter
"Laughter is the shortest distance between two people." ~ Victor Borge I agree with the quote above, but it can be hard to let loose and relax into natural laughter when you are trying to make a good impression on a date. When you are feeling inhibited (even if just a...
A Tale of Two Relationships
I recently heard a terrible story from the lips of a woman who endured a tragedy of the sort that changes your life forever. The root cause of her suffering seemed to stem from the repeated decision to forgive a man too many times. But we will...
Turns Out Mr. Right Has A Quirk
Mr. Right is hard to find. He's not Mr. Right because he is perfect. He is Mr. Right because he is right for you. Even if he is right for you, chances are he's going to have a few quirks that annoy you. They seem trivial, but annoying quirks can gradually drive a...
Before You Text Your Boyfriend, Read This
Here are a few things I have learned about texting as a relationship coach. 1.You should not make decisions or write those decisions in a text message when you are upset. 2.You should be VERY slow to respond to text messages when you are angry. 3.Your own mood will...
Re-Imagine the Future
This post is about cultivating "The Hopeful Self." It's about acquiring optimism that can be cultivated to elevate your mood.This post is about you. It's about enjoying life right here and right now. If implementing any of this advice ends up attracting other people,...
How to Improve your Looks (By The Standards That Matter To Men)
There are some things about your personal appearance you simply cannot do anything to change. For the sake of building your own confidence and self-esteem, it is important that you accept those things completely. Yes, I know you would still change them if your fairy...
A Few Espionage Tips
Generally speaking, a relationship only works if both partners make the decision to trust each other. I have counseled quite a few women on the importance of either embracing a man and choosing to trust him, or getting out of the relationship if he is an...
How To Give Your Guy Feedback Without Getting Into Arguments
What does the term "feedback" mean to you? If you're like most people, you think of it as a tool for repair. You give your boyfriend feedback to fix something. Feedback is generally used as a method of telling people what they have done wrong and what they need to do...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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