Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
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Are Coffee Dates Boring?
Amelia wasn’t her usual positive self. Most of the time, when we talked about her dating life, she was optimistic that the time she was spending on dating...
Relationship Self-Defense
Relationships are places where you can let down your guard and show your true self. Relationships are places where you can open your heart and let love in....
Defeat Prince Charming Syndrome
I want you to imagine your perfect guy… Your Prince Charming. Imagine him sitting across from you, looking into your eyes, his smile warming your heart. See...
Why You Feel Anxious in Relationships
How do you experience love? As you think about your past relationships, pick the option that describes how love most often feels to you: Option A:...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There's a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don't get this for one simple reason.
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How to be a Happier Couple
Here’s a question for you. Which is easier to remember? The good times or the bad times? Psychologist Karen Young says that we’re literally “wired to remember things that bring us pain.”[i] Ouch. She says this is a part of an ancient survival instinct. It’s like a...
How to Know When It’s Time to Move On
How do you feel about the idea of quitting? I mean quitting on a relationship when there is still a mix of both good and bad. Your stomach just rolled, didn’t it? Yeah, I feel the same way. I don’t like the notion of giving up, either. And we’re not alone. How many...
What You Should Know Before Dating Someone from Work
We’ve all heard the warnings. Do not date someone from work. It’s not worth putting your career at risk or wrecking your reputation. You’ll regret it. But how true is it? Not at all, according to the 1 in 10 Americans[1] who met their future spouse at work. Since the...
When to Keep a Secret from Your Man: One Guiding Principle
What’s your stance on keeping secrets from your guy? Ask ten different women that question and you’ll get ten different answers. Some are advocates of sharing EVERYTHING, while others want to maintain areas of privacy, even in a serious relationship. You probably have...
How to Recognize – and Avoid – Pick-Up Artists
Most of the time, my advice focuses on attracting guys. You want their attention. You want a connection. If a guy focuses on you, it’s a win, right? Well, not always. When you put yourself out there, it’s important to remember something: some guys are predators....
What Makes a Perfect Match?
It’s no one’s place to tell you who to be attracted to. You’re attracted to who you’re attracted to. It may look crazy to outsiders, but it’s your right. No one else can see through your eyes. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So how do you know who’s the perfect...
The Secret to Being Lucky in Love
Do you consider yourself a lucky person? That may sound like a silly question. Right about now I’m supposed to share some kind of useful relationship-building tip. Instead, I’m asking if you think you’re lucky. Well, buckle up. Here comes that hard-hitting truth you...
How to Deal with Him when He’s Stressed Out
You already know that guys and girls handle stress differently. You’ve seen that reality in action. Think about the last time your guy had a really chaotic day. Maybe things went sideways on him at work, or his car broke down, or there was some kind of family drama....
The Only Proven Way to Improve Your Relationship
Did you know there's only one technique for improving relationships that's actually been proven to work? That's right. Just one. I know what you're thinking. I suggest tips for making your relationship better all the time. Not only that, but I back up my suggestions...
Do Men Go for Rebellious Women?
You know the iconic image. James Dean in a white t-shirt and leather jacket with his hair combed back sloppily. He has a look of casual indifference. There's a cigarette dangling from his lip. He's a rebel. You can tell by looking at him. And because he's a...
Get Him to Invest in Your Relationship
Women want commitment; men want freedom. Everyone knows that. Everyone knows women who’ve struggled to get a marriage proposal out of a long-term relationship. Everyone knows men committed to the bachelor lifestyle. At a glance, that distinction comes across as...
Are You Lonely in Your Relationship?
It sounds so easy: Find someone to love, and you’ll never be lonely again. But tell that to the many married adults who feel lonely even when their spouse is sitting right beside them. You can be together but not feel together. When your partner is detached,...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.