Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
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5 Red Flags that Drive Great Men Away
You like him. But you don’t know what he thinks of you. You lie awake at night wondering: Does he like me? Does he find me attractive? Does he see me as...
Sometimes? He’s an Insensitive Jerk
Layla thought this had potential. He was funny, he was hot, he had great dance moves, and his big brown eyes and soulful smile warmed her from the inside. But...
5 Surprising Things Men Find Beautiful in Women
Magazines are full of pictures of beautiful women. Women with perfect bodies. Women with glossy hair. Women who look amazing, relaxed, and radiant. You look...
When Things Get “Emotionally Weird”
Meghan was enjoying her new companion. They had great conversations. He was so interesting. They shared a lot of the same opinions about the world. And he was...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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“His Secret Obsession” Is the Key to James Bauer’s Relationship Course for Women
What is “his secret obsession”? We talk about being “obsessed” a lot. Like when we’re obsessed with a certain TV show. When we can’t get enough of a favorite food. When we can’t put down a book. When we obsess over a desired goal. Obsession has become a catch-all term...
The Value in Harboring a Secret Obsession
You’re driving a bit over the speed limit. Nothing out of the ordinary. Nothing you’d ever think about. But this time a cop pulls you over. He gives you a speeding ticket. It’s surprising. Frustrating. Scary. And for the whole next week, you can’t stop thinking about...
How to Be More Attractive to Every Guy You Meet
Do you want to be more attractive? Silly question, I know. That’s like asking if you want a million dollars. Or if you want frizz-free hair, no matter the weather. Yes, yes, and HOLY COW, YES. Well, you’re in luck. I can tell you how to instantly be more attractive...
How to Stop Falling for Your Own Tricks
Have you ever wondered why stores use prices like $99.99? Why not just sell the same pair of shoes for an even $100? Ah, but you already know the answer. It's a simple psychological trick. If the shoes cost less than $100, even by just a penny, they fall into a lower...
Go One Step Deeper than Good Communication
If you spend even a little time reading up on what makes a relationship work, you’ll come across a lot of advice on improving communication. Happy couples have good communication, right? Well, yes. But are they happy because they have good communication, or do they...
Three Ways “Fun Theory” Can Help Your Relationship Thrive
Have you ever tried to get excited about something you didn’t really want to do? A friend of mine is a runner. Recently I admitted I simply don’t like running enough to tackle the long distances she does, and what she said floored me. She said she doesn’t like to run,...
One Response to Survive and Thrive Under Criticism
Karen thought it would bond them as a couple. A weekend workshop devoted to developing greater intimacy? Bring it on! But on the afternoon of the second day, her world turned upside-down. The topic was how to give feedback instead of criticism. The facilitator asked...
Get into His Heart by Learning Exactly How He Wants to Be Loved
“Love” means something different to everyone. Discovering how your guy wants to be loved can help you connect. It’s like finding the key to his heart. You can tap into a deeper part of who he is. Shower him with “his” type of love, and he’ll be hooked. I’m going to...
Why You Should Hold Out for an Apology from Your Guy
You probably have at least one female friend who’s a bit too quick to forgive. When her guy says something that hurts her feelings, she laughs it off. If he’s consistently late for dates, she just shrugs and says he’s got a busy schedule. She might even let big stuff...
How to Avoid Online Relationship Drama
Have you had the uncomfortable experience of watching a social media train wreck? I’ve seen more than a few, myself. In fact, just recently I came across an entire article about one.[i] The girl was cheated on, so she told everyone what a two-timing jerk her guy was –...
Does Your Relationship Get Enough Playtime
Do you want a relationship that’s off-the-charts satisfying? Then you need to make sure you and your guy get enough playtime. Take a moment to think about your average day. Imagine it from the beginning to the end, like a video playing on fast-forward in your mind....
Turn Toward Your Partner to Stay Connected
You’re not sure what to do. You’ve had a fight, and you haven’t spoken since. Which isn’t great, considering that you live together. You’ve managed to share the same space without making eye contact once. As you’re walking past the living room, he says, “Come and take...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.