Become His Secret Obsession
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Classic Dating Advice That REALLY Works
You met this guy, and you REALLY like him. You can’t help telling your friends all about him… Dreaming about him while you’re supposed to be focusing at work…...
3 Commandments of Online Dating
Online dating is getting better. Fifteen years ago, less than half of online daters ever made it out on an actual date. There were a lot of time-wasters....
I Can’t Stop Thinking about My Ex
“Oh, James. I really messed it up.” Olivia was sitting in my office with her head in her hands. When she and her boyfriend broke up last month, she thought...
3 Reasons Guys Stop Trying Once They Have You
When you met your guy, it was amazing. He treated you like a queen. He took you out. He listened. He wanted to learn everything you liked so he could give it...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There's a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don't get this for one simple reason.
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How to Make the Most of Weekends with Your Man
Do you ever feel like you have two full-time jobs? First, you’ve got your 40-hour gig. That’s the job that ensures food and shelter. And then there’s the time you have to invest to keep a good relationship going. Recently, I was talking to my friend, Julia. She and...
Stop Old Arguments from Wrecking Your Relationship Rhythm
Try this quick experiment. I’ll explain why in a bit. Think about the last time your boyfriend did something really irritating. For just a moment, 30 seconds tops, remember every detail you can. Got a specific annoyance in mind? Good. Okay, the next part is the...
A Simple Way to Spot Mr. Right
So many women regret the time they wasted in unhealthy relationships. They can’t believe who they fell for. They can’t believe how long they stuck with dead-end relationships. But I have one friend who never expresses those kinds of regrets. Jennifer has always been...
When the Truth is a Lie
What do you make of the following fun facts?[i] You could live the rest of your life without eating or drinking anything. Most people have more than the average number of legs. I’ve won as many Oscars as Glenn Close. They feel a bit fishy, don’t they? And yet, every...
How to Be the Drama-Free Girlfriend Guys Love
Kathy’s life was like something out of a reality TV program. Her friends loved her. Life was never boring with Kathy around. Drama followed her wherever she went. But there was one area of her life Kathy wished was less dramatic: Her relationships. She’d never had a...
How to Get Over Your Ex Faster (and Move on to the Right Guy)
How to Get Over Your Ex Faster (and Move on to the Right Guy) Moving on after you break up with someone isn’t rocket science. Ask anyone, and they’ll tell you: it takes time. But this can be frustrating. Especially if you want to get back out there and find someone....
The Simple Mind Hack that Can Change the Way You Date
How do you feel about dating? Depending on when you're asked that question, your answer might change dramatically. That's because dating is a mix of wildly different experiences. Sometimes it's fun, like a first kiss. Sometimes it's intense, like the first real fight....
You Really ARE Better Than Average
Can you ever really know how other people see you? It would be great if you could. Then you could see exactly what he sees when he looks at you. You could see why he loves you, or why he turned away. You could see whether that mole on your cheek is sexy or...
Their Secret Obsession: 5 Famous Men Who Were Romantically Obsessed with a Woman
Obsessing is a natural part of being human. It’s literally built into your genetic code. You see, we all have a “loop” in our brain that regulates obsession. Here’s how it works. An obsessions is like a drug. Thinking about an obsession releases dopamine. And that...
“His Secret Obsession” Is the Key to James Bauer’s Relationship Course for Women
What is “his secret obsession”? We talk about being “obsessed” a lot. Like when we’re obsessed with a certain TV show. When we can’t get enough of a favorite food. When we can’t put down a book. When we obsess over a desired goal. Obsession has become a catch-all term...
The Value in Harboring a Secret Obsession
You’re driving a bit over the speed limit. Nothing out of the ordinary. Nothing you’d ever think about. But this time a cop pulls you over. He gives you a speeding ticket. It’s surprising. Frustrating. Scary. And for the whole next week, you can’t stop thinking about...
How to Be More Attractive to Every Guy You Meet
Do you want to be more attractive? Silly question, I know. That’s like asking if you want a million dollars. Or if you want frizz-free hair, no matter the weather. Yes, yes, and HOLY COW, YES. Well, you’re in luck. I can tell you how to instantly be more attractive...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.