Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
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Do You Know How You Feel? Really?
Something he’s doing is bothering you. You feel uncomfortable about the situation, so you call your best friend to talk about it. You explain what happened,...
5 Ways to Say No to Him
You finally meet someone you like… And he pressures you to do something you don’t want to do. You’re convinced he’ll lose interest in you if you don’t do it....
The Only Male Mind Hack You’ll Ever Need
Your guy has been acting strangely lately. He seems distracted. He’s not as affectionate. He doesn’t seem to want to spend as much time together. You worry...
How You Can Mistake Attraction (And How to Use This to Your Advantage!)
Lisa Feldman Barrett said yes to a date. Truth be told, she didn’t even like the guy. He was in her psychology program, and she didn’t know him very well. But...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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This Is What Guys Really Care About
What does your guy value more than passion? Do you know? The answer may surprise you. Passion is pretty powerful. Men and women alike feel drawn to it. All of us want a life filled with passionate moments. But there are things that matter to us even more than passion....
When He Doesn’t Want All the Love You Have to Give
There’s nothing worse than knowing you have a big heart… A heart that any man would be privileged to cherish… And yet feeling that men don’t want your love. If you’ve ever felt like that, let me share with you a story I sometimes tell my clients. You’re standing in a...
The SAP Method for Dealing with Emotional Triggers
Every time Bryan and Jill go to her parents’ house, they have a huge argument. One that goes nuclear. And Bryan thinks he knows why. “Jill gets weird around her family,” he says. “It’s like she’s a different person. She picks on every little thing I say. Normally I’m...
How to Save Your Relationship from His Children
Becky thought she found the perfect guy. There was only one problem: His daughter hated her. Becky told me she could understand—really, she could. From his daughter’s perspective, Becky was stealing away her dad. But that wasn’t Becky’s intention at all. She respected...
How to Know if He’s Worth It . . . On the First Date
Want to play a fun (and completely immature) game? Fantastic. Answer the following question. What's the most ridiculous reason you've ever given for breaking up? There's a viral post making the rounds on social media. It includes some priceless answers to that...
Tap Into Authenticity for Romantic Bliss
Have you ever been happy and miserable at the same time? I was talking to a client the other day. From outward appearances, she’s got it made. She has an amazing job, she’s in good shape, and the guy she’s dating is a real catch. She looks happy practically all the...
The Art of Avoiding Creeps & Encouraging Good Guys
Mia had a unique problem. “The only guys who talk to me are the creepy ones,” she told me. “I try to end it pretty quick, but it’s getting frustrating. What am I, a creep magnet?” “What’s a creep, exactly?” I asked her. She gave me a look. “You know. A weirdo. Someone...
The Negativity Bias That Brings Down Relationships
He says you look beautiful tonight… But all you can remember is the last time you wore this outfit and the rude comment he made. He says he’s never loved you more than he does right now… But all you can remember is that time you argued and he said he regretted ever...
How to get him to commit?
This article is part of James Bauer's top four relationship question. What do you do when a guy you really like has other love interests and is kind of on the fence about a committed relationship with you as a result? This issue came up a lot from those of you who...
Why do guys pull away?
This article is part of James Bauer's top four relationship question. I keep ending up with relationships that end after a few months. I am fun loving and he says I satisfy him physically, but then he wants no part when I ask where the relationship is going. Why do...
How can I get him back?
This article is part of James Bauer's top four relationship question. We had a fight and sort of broke up. Now I want him back. What can I do? Try using reciprocity. There is a powerful urge in human nature to return a favor. Sales people all over the world have...
How To Get Out of the Friend Zone
This article is part of James Bauer's top four relationship question. The dreaded "friend zone" can be a frustrating trap. No one wants to get caught in it. Allow me to offer a few tips on breaking free of the friend zone to become the object of his desire. Before I...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.