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From Fizzling to Sizzling

From Fizzling to Sizzling

Barbara needed my advice. She explained that she was dating a wonderful man. They were both in their sixties. They both had adult children and he ran his own...

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5 Fun Relationship Tests

5 Fun Relationship Tests

How do you know if he’s the one? Hint: the answer is NOT to take a 15-second TikTok challenge. Relationship tests have sprung up across social media, promising a window into your future as a couple. If your guy passes the test, then your relationship gets a vote of...

Look For This Sign You’re Meant to Be

Look For This Sign You’re Meant to Be

What’s the clearest sign you’re meant to be with a guy? For many women, it’s how they feel about him. The stronger your love, the stronger your conviction that you’re meant to be. But researchers who study lasting relationships find that love is necessary but not...

How to Get Over Someone You Never Dated

How to Get Over Someone You Never Dated

You still remember him. That guy you loved throughout high school, even though he never noticed you. The guy who played in your favorite band, even though you never met him in real life. The guy with the incredible dating profile who stopped replying to your messages....

7 Love Strategies

7 Love Strategies

You want to be the best partner you can be. You want to show him how adored he is. You want to make him so happy he’ll want to be with you forever. How do you do that? You might: Meet his needs before he realizes he has them. Ask very little from him. Be the “perfect...

The Addiction That’s Stronger Than Candy Crush

The Addiction That’s Stronger Than Candy Crush

Who would you rather spend time with: Your best friend Your co-workers Your mother, or Your boyfriend? Being with certain people gives us great pleasure. Being with others… not so much. Have you ever thought about why that is? Why does it feel so good to hang out with...

I Dare You to Have This Conversation

I Dare You to Have This Conversation

Is everything going well with you and your guy? Great, even? Then it might be time to have A Talk. No, not that kind of talk! But rather a Relationship Check-in. It’s like a tune-up for your bond, making sure you’re still in sync. When you first started dating, you...

Great Relationships Include Safety

Great Relationships Include Safety

When you think about what makes a truly amazing relationship, what comes to mind? You might think of: Compatibility. The two of you are alike in the ways that count. Chemistry. You’re physically attracted to each other. Communication. You can talk about things....

5 Ways to Talk About Commitment (Without Talking About Commitment)

5 Ways to Talk About Commitment (Without Talking About Commitment)

When you meet a man you really like, you don’t feel like keeping your options open. You want to be with him and only him. So you give him the best gift of all: Your complete and whole-hearted commitment. You keep your weekends open for him. You take down your dating...

25 Love Questions to Ask Your Guy

25 Love Questions to Ask Your Guy

From the moment you met him, you were waiting for this. For him to look you in the eyes and say, “I want you to know that... “I love you.” As you hold his gaze, fighting back tears, feeling your heart swell in your chest, you can hear all the things he’s not saying:...

It’s All My Fault, Isn’t It?

It’s All My Fault, Isn’t It?

When things go wrong with a guy… How often do you think to yourself, “It’s all my fault”? You feel like you did something wrong. You must have accidentally pushed him away. Or maybe you didn’t do something that you were supposed to do. You didn’t say the right thing,...

5 Steps to Changing His Mind

5 Steps to Changing His Mind

Ever been in a situation where your guy just won’t budge? He’s convinced he’s got it all figured out. He won’t listen. It’s like hitting a brick wall. You turn to your friends for advice, and what do they say? “Reward him for doing it your way.” “Make him think it was...

Ask Him These 5 Revealing Questions

Ask Him These 5 Revealing Questions

This could be the beginning of something wonderful. You really care about him. You want to be part of his life. But a few things he’s said bother you. He’s got some complicated issues in his life... And he doesn’t want you to become involved. You have a few...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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