Become His Secret Obsession
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Dating A Low Effort Guy
You’re with a guy you really like, but you’ve noticed something troubling. You put a ton of effort into sending him sweet messages, planning things to do, and...
From Friends to Lovers
You’ve got this amazing friend.... And something’s changed. You’ve started to feel more than friendship. You catch yourself thinking about him in a different...
When He Won’t Talk
What do you do when the man you love won’t talk to you or work on your problems? That’s what Joyce wanted to know. She showed up in my office, a graceful...
Friends to Lovers: Why You Should Fall for Your Best Friend
There are two pathways to love. One is the “attractive stranger” pathway. You see someone who catches your eye, you start talking, and sparks fly. The second...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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The Two Faces of Passion
He is your everything. There’s nothing you’d rather do than be with him. You’d face any obstacle to be by his side. Without him, life feels meaningless. That’s the pinnacle of romance: A love so obsessive and all-consuming that it defines you. Have you had a...
Is He Just Not That Into You? Or Is It Social Anxiety?
“I don’t get it, James,” Melanie said. “I thought we were really connecting. I was so excited about meeting up. But then it was like... he was a different person.” My heart went out to Melanie. When I’d seen her last week, she was brimming over with enthusiasm about...
Set Goals in Love
Until recently, Jenna believed she could achieve anything she set her mind to. It worked in her career, after all. She set big goals. She accomplished them. But it wasn’t working in her personal life. All she wanted, she told me, was to find her future husband. It...
A Threat to Your Relationship?
“I am so mad, James.” Lauryn threw her purse onto the table and sat down with a sigh. “You know that great guy I’ve been bragging to you about? I think he’s cheating on me.” I looked at her with concern. Not even her immaculate makeup could hide her fatigue. “That...
5 Things Men Are Insecure About (But Will Never Tell You)
Men act so confident. They act like they know what they're doing. They don't have hang-ups about their body. They think they're a catch (even when they're not). But everything is not what it seems... Deep down, many men are insecure and uncertain. They’ve been told...
5 Fun Relationship Tests
How do you know if he’s the one? Hint: the answer is NOT to take a 15-second TikTok challenge. Relationship tests have sprung up across social media, promising a window into your future as a couple. If your guy passes the test, then your relationship gets a vote of...
Look For This Sign You’re Meant to Be
What’s the clearest sign you’re meant to be with a guy? For many women, it’s how they feel about him. The stronger your love, the stronger your conviction that you’re meant to be. But researchers who study lasting relationships find that love is necessary but not...
How to Get Over Someone You Never Dated
You still remember him. That guy you loved throughout high school, even though he never noticed you. The guy who played in your favorite band, even though you never met him in real life. The guy with the incredible dating profile who stopped replying to your messages....
7 Love Strategies
You want to be the best partner you can be. You want to show him how adored he is. You want to make him so happy he’ll want to be with you forever. How do you do that? You might: Meet his needs before he realizes he has them. Ask very little from him. Be the “perfect...
The Addiction That’s Stronger Than Candy Crush
Who would you rather spend time with: Your best friend Your co-workers Your mother, or Your boyfriend? Being with certain people gives us great pleasure. Being with others… not so much. Have you ever thought about why that is? Why does it feel so good to hang out with...
I Dare You to Have This Conversation
Is everything going well with you and your guy? Great, even? Then it might be time to have A Talk. No, not that kind of talk! But rather a Relationship Check-in. It’s like a tune-up for your bond, making sure you’re still in sync. When you first started dating, you...
Great Relationships Include Safety
When you think about what makes a truly amazing relationship, what comes to mind? You might think of: Compatibility. The two of you are alike in the ways that count. Chemistry. You’re physically attracted to each other. Communication. You can talk about things....
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.