Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
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Make Better Decisions in Love
Do you make good decisions in love? Let’s find out! Question #1: You like a guy at work. Despite your best efforts to get him to ask you out, it’s clear that...
Are You Accidentally Telling Him It’s Casual?
Naleda was a vibrant 22-year-old who oozed confidence. She made direct eye contact and shook my hand firmly. As she settled into a chair, I asked her why...
Why Guys Break Up Instead of Working on the Relationship
This is a story you might have heard before. A man meets a woman… And he falls hard. He’s never met anyone like her before. They have so much fun together....
He Won’t Talk About Marriage
“I just can’t give anymore, James,” she told me. “I don’t know what to do.” Marissa had come to me with a request. She wanted to get married. She and her guy...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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Feel like Giving Up on Love?
If you tell your girlfriends you’re giving up on love, they’ll rush to hug and reassure you. “Don’t do it!” they’ll tell you. “You’ll find someone. You just haven’t met the right one yet.” It’s nice that they’re so concerned about you. But you’re not sure if their...
The Lesson Oprah Learned about Men
Even Oprah used to sit by the phone waiting for a guy to call. She’d stay off the phone in case he tried and got a busy signal. She wouldn’t go out to dump the trash or start a bath in case she missed hearing it ring. This was decades ago, when she wasn’t the...
Go Ahead, Get Mad at Him (Just Do This First)
He did it again. That THING that annoys you. You know better than to talk to him about it. You’ve tried that. Nothing changes. So you keep your mouth shut. You’re going to be the bigger person. You’re going to take the high road. You’re not going to let it get to you....
Does He Deserve to Be Inside Your Circle of Trust?
Should you trust him? It’s a Catch 22. If you do trust him, you’re opening yourself up to getting hurt or betrayed. If you don’t trust him, you’ll never gain true intimacy. Has this ever happened to you? You trusted someone who shouldn’t have been trusted… Then...
Will He Come Back?
You remember, don’t you, all those times you felt so close to him that time stood still. There was no one else in the world. Just you and him. Love wrapping you in a cocoon of happiness. There was only one thing you needed for it to be perfect: The knowledge that this...
Why is He Emotionally Unavailable?
You’re dating an emotionally unavailable man. Is he unavailable because: He’s still not over his ex? He’s just not that into you? All men are like that? You haven’t said the magic words? Okay, so maybe there isn’t any “magic spell” that turns an emotionally...
The 5 Stages of a Relationship
It happened every time. Angelika would meet a man with potential. Someone she really, REALLY liked. She’d feel so full of hope. She’d see signs they were meant to be. Then she’d find out he wasn’t the man she thought he was. He had issues he hadn’t told her about. He...
The Narcissist Test: 13 Questions That Reveal If You’re Dating a Narcissist
Remember those immature guys you used to date? (At least, I’m hoping it was all in the past!) They never thought about you, unless you were useful to them. If you came down with a cold, there’s no way they’d drop by with soup and a movie. They only wanted to be around...
Questions to Ask a Guy: The Rapid Intimacy Tool
Maybe there’s a guy you have a crush on. And maybe you’d like to move past awkward small talk with him so he can realize what an interesting person you are. In that case, it would be helpful to know the right questions to ask a guy. Questions that make him slip...
Bounce Back with Better Self-talk
Think of your last REALLY BAD dating experience. The guy who arrived at your dinner date … only to confess he’d already eaten. The guy who vanished into thin air while you were freshening up in the bathroom. The guy who failed to mention he was married. The guy who...
Social Media Etiquette for Online Dating
Olivia was thrilled when a guy messaged her back on Match.com. He was the only match she actually liked out of the dozens Match.com kept throwing at her. She couldn’t figure out how their algorithm thought she’d like these guys with their bushy beards, serial-killer...
The 5 Factors of a Flourishing Relationship
Everyone thinks they know what makes a relationship work. Communication. Date nights. Never going to bed angry. All those things help. But they’re not enough. To have a happy relationship, you’ve got to be happy, he’s got to be happy, and you’ve got to feel like...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.