James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week
“What’s the weirdest object in your home/workplace?”
Follow this up by asking him to send you a picture of whatever it is.
This gives him a topic to talk about, which can intimidate some men.
When he asks why you asked, be prepared to say, “Because I just came across this [pic] and realized how bizarre it would seem to someone who didn’t know the story behind it.”