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When You Feel Conflicted about Him
Do you ever feel you’re of two minds about a guy? Or three minds? Or four minds? Or five? 😉 Maybe you love him, but you don’t always like him. Some days, you...
3 Casual Dating Traps to Avoid
You thought you made it clear. You told him you wanted a relationship. And he agreed! He said he wanted a relationship, too. You believed him. But you’ve been...
Falling in Love? Don’t Screw It Up
“Oh, he’s amaaaazing,” Sasha said. “I wish you could meet him. I think he might be the one!!” I smiled. Sasha leaned in as if she was going to tell me a...
9 Ways to “Speak Dating”
These days, dating has its own language. You’ve probably already heard words like breadcrumbing, ghosting, and love bombing before… But you may not have heard...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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Find Out If You’re Compatible with Him
Dan Ariely doesn’t like online dating. The term is all wrong, he says. There’s no dating happening online. Instead, he jokes, they should call it “online searching and blurb writing.”[1] Not that Dan has searched for love online himself. He’s happily married with two...
Are Coffee Dates Boring?
Amelia wasn’t her usual positive self. Most of the time, when we talked about her dating life, she was optimistic that the time she was spending on dating apps would pay off. She’d been working on moving conversations offline. It was a big leap, but she’d wasted too...
Relationship Self-Defense
Relationships are places where you can let down your guard and show your true self. Relationships are places where you can open your heart and let love in. But relationships are also places where you can be hurt... Where you can experience betrayal. That’s why you...
The Only 3 Types of Compatibility That Matter in Romance
You THINK you’re compatible with him. You like the same things. You can hang out together and have fun. You have great conversations. But you do have your differences. Maybe he’s more introverted than you are. He doesn’t like to spend as much time with other people....
Appeal to His Inner Caveman
You spend so much time sifting through online dating profiles. You spend so much time exchanging messages, trying to be flirtatious, hoping it will go somewhere. You spend so much time vetting these guys, deciding whether you want to meet, working out the when and...
Stop the “Emotional Cascade” That Crushes Relationships
It can go downhill so fast. You’ve met someone you really like, you have a great time with him, and you appreciate the way he shows up on time and treats you like a queen. Then it starts. He shows up late. He says something rude to you and laughs it off. He blames you...
Is Something Bothering you?
He’s great. He’s better than 90% of the guys out there. You can think of a lot of things you like about him. He’s kind. He’s thoughtful. He’s funny. But… He’s not perfect. There’s this thing about him that annoys you. Maybe it’s that gross sound he makes when eating…...
How to Wrap Up a First Date Gracefully
You think it went well. You had a nice chat. There was a little flirting going on. He seemed comfortable with you. Then it was time to go. You could tell he was ready. The quiet stretches grew longer. He kept shifting in his seat. You kept waiting for him to say, “It...
Your Favorite Jeans and The Perfect Guy
You’re going shopping, you walk into the store, and you see some jeans. These jeans look AMAZING. You love this brand, they’re completely affordable, and you’ve seen celebrities wearing these exact jeans. There’s nothing else that catches your eye, and you feel like...
3 Things You Should Never Say to a Man
Everything is going great. You’re talking. You’re laughing. You’re having fun. Then you say something—you can’t even remember what now—and you can immediately tell it was the wrong thing. His face becomes expressionless. He doesn’t reply. His energy chills. No matter...
Is His Job Wrecking Your Relationship?
He spends more time at work than he does with you. Sometimes it feels like he cares more about work than he cares about you. Does that mean he’s half-out of this relationship? Are you always going to be second priority to him, after his boss? You might be surprised to...
Where Are All the High-Quality Men?
Have you looked on Tinder lately? Tons and tons and TONS of men… But hardly any dead ringers for Mr. Right. As you scroll through profiles on your dating app of choice, you sigh. Where are all the high-quality men hiding? It’s like finding a needle in a haystack. You...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
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