Create True Commitment
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
Is He a Giver or a Taker? Here’s How to Find Out
Whether you’ve just met a man you really like… Or you’re wondering whether to commit… There’s one question you must ask yourself: Is this man generous with...
Can He Grow Old with You?
If you want a long-term relationship, you look for a man who says he wants one, too. If you want to get married someday, you look for a man who says he wants...
How To Override Relationship Negativity
Panic. That’s what Rachel felt. She just knew that Daniel was losing interest. He was still going out with the guys one night a week. He hadn’t talked to her...
A Guy’s Secret Fear
I’m going to share a rather big secret. It’s one of those secrets men aren’t going to tell you. It’s TOO personal. It gets at the core of what makes us...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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More Commitment Articles
Stop the Pursue-Withdraw Pattern Before It Breaks Your Relationship
Madison didn’t want to fight. Her relationship felt suffocating, but she didn’t know how to tell her boyfriend that she didn’t want to spend every weekend with him. She felt she owed it to him to arrange her schedule around him, but she’d begun to resent it. She’d...
2 Strategies That Can Save the Day When He Pulls Away
He’s pulling away. You can feel it. It’s not just that he’s not contacting you as often. It’s the way he communicates. Almost as if he’s irritated by you. As if it’s a big effort to pick up his phone and text you back. It hurts. It hurts because you thought you had...
3 “Gifts” to Make Your Guy Feel Incredibly Loved
Long-term relationships are comfortable. You’re used to each other. You’ve got your routine. You no longer wake up every single morning thinking, “I’m so lucky!” It’s a wonderful feeling when you can finally relax into a relationship. You can be real with one another....
3 Signs He Wants a Relationship But is Scared to Commit
Jade came to me with a clear focus for what she wanted to work on. “I want to show my boyfriend that he can trust me,” she said. “He had a really toxic relationship with his ex, and now he says he’s scared of getting close to anyone else again. How can I help him get...
4 Steps to Defuse His Emotional Triggers
It was just a comment. All Amanda did was ask Ethan to pitch in to get chores done. Okay, maybe she mentioned the fact that all he was doing was sitting on the sofa staring at his phone. But it was a light-hearted joke. She wasn’t being mean about it. Ethan blew up....
Know That You’re His One-and-Only
A long time ago, I was standing in one of those lines. You know the ones. Glaciers move faster. Might as well pitch a tent and break out the freeze-dried food, because you’re in it for the long haul. I’d been staring at the head of the person in front of me for so...
What Does Respect in a Relationship Look Like?
“She doesn’t respect me, so why should I have to respect her?” Dillon leaned forward, certain I’d agree with him. But Jayla cut in with a shrug of her shoulders, “I’d respect him if he started acting like a man instead of a teenage boy.” Dillon looked to me, “See what...
3 Signs He Wants a Relationship But is Scared to Commit
Jade came to me with a clear focus for what she wanted to work on. “I want to show my boyfriend that he can trust me,” she said. “He had a really toxic relationship with his ex, and now he says he’s scared of getting close to anyone else again. How can I help him get...
Go Ahead, Get Mad at Him (Just Do This First)
He did it again. That THING that annoys you. You know better than to talk to him about it. You’ve tried that. Nothing changes. So you keep your mouth shut. You’re going to be the bigger person. You’re going to take the high road. You’re not going to let it get to you....
Why is He Emotionally Unavailable?
You’re dating an emotionally unavailable man. Is he unavailable because: He’s still not over his ex? He’s just not that into you? All men are like that? You haven’t said the magic words? Okay, so maybe there isn’t any “magic spell” that turns an emotionally...
The 5 Things Your Relationship Needs To Thrive
Do you know what you need from a relationship? A relationship that doesn’t meet your basic needs isn’t going to work over the long term (though it may be fun in the short-term!). But that begs the question… What ARE your basic needs? Do you know? A popular exercise...
How Couple Rituals Keep You Together
Being a couple is special. You’re unlike any other couple. As a couple, you have secrets no one else knows, you have inside jokes that send you delirious with laughter, and you have pet names and private rituals. Defining who you are as a couple is an important part...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!