Create True Commitment
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
The Relationship “Golden Rule” Is Different
Leia was upset. “He knows how much I care about him, James!” she told me. “Before he left, I told him he could take all the time in the world. I would be here...
From Casual to Committed: The Boring Paradox
Why do most new relationships fail? Because they can’t make it through the Crunch. The Crunch is the transition from having fun together to making a life...
What Men Won’t Tell You About Commitment
When you love a man, you want a life with him. You want to commit to him. You want him to commit to you. And you don’t understand why he keeps avoiding...
Secrets of the Securely Attached
If relationships were logical, it would be so much easier. You’d understand going in that most relationships don’t last. It wouldn’t hurt when things went...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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More Commitment Articles
Will He Ever Change?
It’s so tempting to believe you can fix him. You can see the things about his personality that are holding him back. If only he’d let you, you could help him become a great success in life. You’d help him! You’d back him! But he won’t listen to you. He won’t even try...
Has Your Boyfriend Ever Done THIS to You?
A special holiday is coming up. Maybe it’s Valentine’s Day, or your birthday, or your anniversary. You’re excited. You love celebrating special occasions as a couple. This year, you’re dating someone amazing. You think this really might lead somewhere. Maybe this...
Bored in Your Relationship? Try These 3 Tips
True or false: Being bored in your relationship is a red flag. When asked this question, many people would instinctively say yes. Being bored feels like a bad sign. No one wants to go somewhere boring, or talk to someone boring, or do something boring. So why would we...
3 Questions That Help You Know If He’s The One
It’s one of those questions I get asked all the time: “How do I know if he’s the one, James?” My clients want to know if this is as good as it gets. What if there’s someone out there who’s better? What if they’re wasting time with the wrong man when Mr. Right is still...
Use “Warm Touch Enhancement”
You may have never heard of “warm touch enhancement…” But I’ll bet you’re practicing it right now with your loved one. You’re rubbing his shoulders or giving him a hug because you want to give comfort or feel connected. What you may not realize is that your actions...
3 Tips to Create a Powerful Emotional Connection
Aidan had never met anyone like her. His last girlfriend seemed to want one thing and one thing only: to have a big wedding. She invested in their relationship for a future payoff. So whenever Aidan let her down, he knew she would reassessing his suitability as a...
Why He Won’t Say “I’m Sorry”
“Ow! You stepped on my foot!” Caitlin pushed her boyfriend away. “Well, you shouldn’t have been standing behind me!” Drake turned to face Caitlin, who was hunched over clutching her foot. “I was standing there because I was trying to help you,” she said, exasperated....
5 Signs He’s Secretly Committed to You
It makes you want to tear your hair out. You have no CLUE whether he wants a future with you. Sure, you have fun together. Sure, you see each other regularly. Sure, you have an emotional connection. But it’s not enough. Because he hasn’t said a word about what it all...
3 Tips to Get Through Rough Patches in a Relationship
Happily-ever-after. That’s what we’re all looking for. And so when we get into a relationship, and it’s NOT so happy, we start to wonder… Is this really it? Surely, if this were the right relationship, with the right person, we’d feel happy all the time! But, in fact,...
3 Signs He Wants a Relationship But is Scared to Commit
Jade came to me with a clear focus for what she wanted to work on. “I want to show my boyfriend that he can trust me,” she said. “He had a really toxic relationship with his ex, and now he says he’s scared of getting close to anyone else again. How can I help him get...
Why Relationships Make Us More Confident
It’s hard not to need the man you love. You want to lean on him. You want to rely on him. You want him to be your rock when life gets you down. But you’ve heard that the best relationships are interdependent, not codependent. It’s not his job to make you happy. Your...
Stop the Pursue-Withdraw Pattern Before It Breaks Your Relationship
Madison didn’t want to fight. Her relationship felt suffocating, but she didn’t know how to tell her boyfriend that she didn’t want to spend every weekend with him. She felt she owed it to him to arrange her schedule around him, but she’d begun to resent it. She’d...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!