How to Protect Your Relationship from Going Cold

Imagine a man and woman, cuddled close on a cold night in a rickety old cabin. The cabin has many flaws. It leaks heat during the night, bringing a chill into the air. You can solve this problem by patching up the cracks. Or you can solve this problem by maintaining a...

Five useful questions to ask a man you like!

1. “Hey, have you seen that new show that came out about such and such?” It doesn’t matter if you have any interest in the latest show you saw advertised. The question is just a natural-sounding opening to a discussion of the TV shows he does...

How to Talk about the Future with Guys

One of the scariest things in a relationship is “the talk” about where things are going. It’s my opinion that the best time to have this kind of discussion is before a serious relationship develops. Here’s how you do it. Find excuses to bring...

The Act of Lovemaking

Let’s talk about how to create love out of thin air. I chose this title (The Act of Lovemaking) to remind you of something important. Love is something we make. It’s not something we find. It’s completely understandable that you want someone who will cherish you...

Develop the “Knack” for Melting a Man’s Heart

“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” ― Maya Angelou They say you never forget how to ride a bike. It’s a different kind of memory than...