How to Find Common Ground Fast

Finding common ground is one of the fastest ways to build a feeling of warmth. It’s how we establish familiarity with people we’ve just met. It’s also a surprisingly good way to restore feelings of connection with an existing partner. But how do you...

The Art of “Exclusive” Flirting

Do you know the difference between “broadcast” flirting and “exclusive” flirting? Broadcast flirting is on display for everyone to see. When a woman uses broadcast flirting, everyone around can see what she’s up to. For example,...

How to Rekindle His Romantic Interest in You

Hey, it’s James again. Here’s day 2 of your 14 day attraction tips course. It’s just a preview of the kind of advice and insights I offer. That way, you can make an informed decision about whether or not to stay on my subscriber list. If you already...

Is Your Relationship Changing?

Everything was going great. Karen was happy. Really happy. Her relationship with Doug was three months old. They’d enjoyed a thrilling, fun period of getting to know each other, and that’s when the trouble started. “What’s the problem?” a...

How to win at love (no matter what)

Love is a paradox. Those who are clearly on a quest to be loved end up weakened by their efforts. Their hearts are always on their sleeves. They’re dependent on others to make them feel whole. It’s a desperate way to live. But those who give love away...