What Men Won’t Tell You About Commitment

When you love a man, you want a life with him. You want to commit to him. You want him to commit to you. And you don’t understand why he keeps avoiding discussions about the future. It’s clear that you’re good together. He’s clearly enjoying the relationship. You’ve...

Secrets of the Securely Attached

If relationships were logical, it would be so much easier. You’d understand going in that most relationships don’t last. It wouldn’t hurt when things went wrong; you’d expect them to go wrong. Then you’d bust out your toolkit of strategies. If the relationship ended,...

Has He Fallen Out of Love With You? How to Know

Has this ever happened to you? You’re in what you think is a great relationship. You instantly connected with him. Soon he was saying all the beautiful things: he’s never met anyone like you, he wants to be with you, he thinks he’s falling for you. This is how love...

3 Ways to Spot a Love Avoidant Person

You’re with a man who acts like he doesn’t care about you half the time. Some of the time, he’s amazing. He’s passionate. He’s romantic. But then he pulls away. He barely sees you. He acts preoccupied. What’s going on? You may have fallen for a Love Avoidant. How It...

Will You Be Happy with Him?

It’s the golden question. If scientists knew the answer to this question, it would change the romantic landscape for good. If scientists could figure out the answer, we’d have less divorce, fewer breakups, and more 50th wedding anniversaries. There’s a lot on the...

The Honeymoon Is Over – What Now?

Sometimes men break off a new relationship for reasons that don’t seem fair. It doesn’t seem fun anymore. You want more than he can give. (You’re going to groan at this one.) You don’t think he’s perfect anymore. Now, to you, those reasons don’t seem very good. Of...